I (24) am a trans guy, my girlfriend (23F) loves giving me head. a lot of the time our sex will just be her lying on the bed and me standing by her face, facefucking her until i finish and she will finish by masturbating to it. She’ll wake me up to give me head sometimes too not expecting anything in return.

Here’s the kick, she’ll do all of that but doesn’t get off to the sight of my genitals at all and thinks looking at it outside of sex is weird even. but she’ll chow down on it. She doesn’t like the sight, But she finds something like my ARMPIT hair attractive. Anyone else like this?


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  2. As a cis man, I feel like this is very common. Do you know if she feels the same about the sight of her own genitals?

  3. i think a lot of people don’t really find genitals attractive in the abstract

  4. My ex was the opposite. She rarely gave me oral which was pretty sad because I love it but she loved to see me naked, watch me getting hard, touching etc.

    I think some girls are more visual about it. I know for a fact that guys are visual creatures but some girls can be too. Imo vast majority of them aren’t.

  5. I mean I dont really see much issue here sex wise. You like receiving she loves giving and youre not really doing much looking at it anyways at that time.

    As far as her generally not liking the visual; I dont really know where you are at transition wise in that area, but its not uncommon for someones partner to not find their genitals all that attractive which is most likely the case. Now there could be a much more in depth issue of her having issues of your natal genitalia but since shes willing to go to town on you down there thats highly unlikely and something reddit cant answer.

    In the end different people have different preferences. Even if you are wild about your partners genitalia there can definitely be aspects that dontdo it for you. For example my wife can get her self off by blowing me, she loves touching, tasting, and putting her mouth all over it. But also if she just looking at it it foesnt do anything for her and she doesnt really find the visual a turn on and actually thinks dicks are weird looking

  6. Do women even find penises attractive?? I’m not sure I’ve ever heard one say “damn look at that cock” with the exception of my GF when we watched the seven kingdoms 😂

    I know guys love vaginas, but a penis is so ugly idk.

  7. I’m not a fan of the look of genitalia either. But I’ll go down and play with both. It’s normal and nothing against you. As long as yall have fun and love, it’s all good 🙂💕✨️

  8. I dunno, genitals are weird, man– I, also, feel absolutely no draw to look at them, of any gender, outside of sex.

    I, also, love giving head.

    And, I am not a fan of armits, but thumbs and thumbnails/cuticles get me going for some reason.

  9. I love giving head, but I have never in my life gotten off to the sight of someone’s genitals. Everyone is different.

  10. I’m a straight guy and I don’t find vaginas visually attractive on their own. I don’t think your gf is particularly odd for this.

  11. Lots of women don’t care for looking at genitals. We tend to be less visual than men which is why many men don’t understand this. It’s more about sensations and feelings for most women.

    If your sexual dynamic works for both of you, just enjoy it!

    If you need someone to stare at your body and comment on how much they like looking at your genitals, see if your partner is comfortable with you posting pics online. There are definitely people out there who will give you that validation.

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