Since there's a lot of bad dating news I thought I'd share some good news. Im 35M and met my now gf l a lil over 4 months ago.
A friend of mine called me a serial dater once, and though I don't disagree I also have a sense that I have to try harder than most people to find someone interested in giving me a chance. So yeah I go on hella dates and get excited and get my heart broken a lot and it felt never ending and straight up hopeless at times. I started to cultivate an "what if I don't find a partner" approach to my life and started investing more in friendships and hobbies that are fulfilling and idk I was pretty happy and felt at peace.
Anyway long story short. I met my gf back in December and I told her I liked her and wanted to be her mans and she gave us a chance and we became official in February and she's so cool and funny and sweet and treats me really well and I love her v much and she loves me back
I sometimes see people here in their early mid twenties feeling really down and I totally get that. But idk I just want you to keep going, and keep taking dating breaks when you need them, but keep going and don't lose hope
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Love this, thanks for sharing! How did you two meet???
Aww congratulations! 🎉
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Wishing you both the absolute best!!
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Good shit
Thanks bro I needed those words. Ive gone through multiple streaks of dating for a month then getting a not feeling a spark message.
I know that I need to keep pushing and not let it break me, because one day someone will accept it. Its just tough in the meantime
Hell yeah bro!!
Thank you for giving hope!