Since there's a lot of bad dating news I thought I'd share some good news. Im 35M and met my now gf l a lil over 4 months ago.

A friend of mine called me a serial dater once, and though I don't disagree I also have a sense that I have to try harder than most people to find someone interested in giving me a chance. So yeah I go on hella dates and get excited and get my heart broken a lot and it felt never ending and straight up hopeless at times. I started to cultivate an "what if I don't find a partner" approach to my life and started investing more in friendships and hobbies that are fulfilling and idk I was pretty happy and felt at peace.

Anyway long story short. I met my gf back in December and I told her I liked her and wanted to be her mans and she gave us a chance and we became official in February and she's so cool and funny and sweet and treats me really well and I love her v much and she loves me back

I sometimes see people here in their early mid twenties feeling really down and I totally get that. But idk I just want you to keep going, and keep taking dating breaks when you need them, but keep going and don't lose hope


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  1. Thanks bro I needed those words. Ive gone through multiple streaks of dating for a month then getting a not feeling a spark message.

    I know that I need to keep pushing and not let it break me, because one day someone will accept it. Its just tough in the meantime

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