I feel like my husband doesn’t want to change his ways..

I am (24) female and my husband is (22) male. Lately I have been feeling like my husband doesn’t want to spend time with me. He’s either at his mom’s giving her all his time instead of wanting to spend time with me and make memories together. Now let me just say this yes he grew up in the system.. so I understand but when I say I feel like he gives all his attention and time to everyone else. More don’t get me wrong, yes he work so I get it you want to relax but to give me your last little minutes be serious. I’ve told him that I felt like he doesn’t even want to be around me until he’s getting ready to go to bed. He goes to say “ we go to bed together.” But I keep reminding him that we may go to bed together but me or him isn’t promised toe see the next day.

Another thing he does is belittle me… to everyone and in front of everyone… and it’s not right because I have never done him like that. I have never belittled him in front of anyone because at the end of the day he is my spouse and I will respect him in front of everybody. Now this isn’t the first time that he has done this if I may say… and I’m honestly tired of it, it seems like he enjoys doing it on purpose.

For example if I ask him what’s wrong he always says it’s his job but goes back to his folks just to say I’m the problem. I never did anything wrong to him… I do everything that a wife is supposed to do. I cook, I clean, i make sure he’s okay mentally I do my part when it comes to finances. So I’m not understanding why he is even doing what he’s doing.

I’m also trying to figure out why he keeps throwing insult for insult at me. When I don’t do it to him… the one that hurt the most was when he said I’m not doing everything that I’m supposed to as a wife…

At this point I’m not sure what to do anymore…