Have you ever had a woman take on a more dominant role with you in bed? If so, what did she do, and how did you like it?
April 30, 2026
Have you ever had a woman take on a more dominant role with you in bed? If so, what did she do, and how did you like it?
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My wife grabbed The back of my head and made me lick her clean after I came in her. Very out of character but it was loved
My ex slapped me and choked me randomly one time and liked to bite but I definitely wasn’t a fan but this is stuff she liked being done to her. I was then called boring for not being into pain the same way she was.
I’ve had a woman hold my hands by my sides and tease me with her mouth and not letting me move. I really liked it for a bit but after a while it was just a bit annoying and I wasn’t able to stay excited I was just getting bored and it lost its charm. I think I’m just a hypocrite because I do the same thing all the time and love it but I try to not drag it on until it’s more annoying than sexy and this taught me that if the woman was like me I was going on way too long and it’s only fun for so long.
I also had the same woman try to manhandle me into different positions and it was very hot to let her be in control but it lost something when she couldn’t actually move me if I was limp so I was moving myself at her direction. We tried it the other way and it basically was just her ending up in awkward positions and we learned that it was a lot less sexy than just guiding her and her doing what you told her to just this time she was comfortable and I wasn’t ruining the mood rearranging limbs so they weren’t going to lose circulation. She was also the first and only person I’d ever been with who called me daddy and I learned that in the moment it was hot but after it really cringed me out and it was only because it did something for her that it happened because it didn’t do anything for me after the first few times other than get me to think about why a guy might be into that when there are so many other names that don’t raise so many questions about why this one gets her going and her relationship with her dad is great but she still loved it and I just dealt with it and gave up trying to understand why and I have to say I don’t miss that now because my current partners dad and I have a great relationship and I don’t think I would want to dissect why she was into it and I wouldn’t feel like it was making love it would just be raw sex because how could you be passionate and loving when you’re being called daddy without it feeling all kinds of wrong.
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When I was an immature 23 year old, I met a 34 year old lady at bar who took me home and taught me about prostate orgasms. She didn’t peg me, but she had prostate massages down to an art form (fingers). Looking back, she was gross as hell and definitely predatory and it was all about her, but still, she introduced me to something I definitely never would have explored on my own. I guess she was dominant with experience and intent, but fortunately that was as far as it went.
One of my partners is very much into primal play, I liked it too, and we switch between who is “prey”.
But in general, I think virtually always I was assumed and expected to be the dominating one (even outside a BDSM-ish context).
I love pain, I like being choked, I like being disciplined in some way. So about 30% of the time she tries to be the more dominant one, until she realises I’m still in control and I allow it about half the time
Several times. Most notably, I ran a role play when I turned my home into a “sex party”. Changed every room in the house to fit the play. Each room had a different kind of sex worker in it. In one room was a “worker” used to dominating the “clients”. Well my wife’s role was to turn that all around on him (me). She took great pleasure in taking on that role 100%
My wife loves to be dominant from time to time. I love it since she climaxes several times more than when she’s not as aggressive.
Hells yeah I did. I work a very dominant and leadership role at work (Captain at an airline). Being able to be submissive in bed on occasion is so hot and a nice change!
It doesn’t have to be crazy. Just her telling me what to do, what she wants, and objectifying me is enough. It’s great!
I had my face aggressively smothered. I have been in love with it since.
Wow I really thought it was a common thing in bed that a girl takes the dominant role from time to time. How can it be not?
im a cuckold one time she had him finish of on her high heels snd was then orderd to lick it off
My ex got into being dominant, it was so hot. She liked it if I stayed naked, made me wear a cage from time to time, and pegged me
Big turn off for me.
Years ago an old girlfriend and I were having a slow sensuous session. I was on top and every time she got close to orgasm I’d stop for a second or change the rhythm, just being a tease. We’d both laugh and she’d give me this lust filled smile..after the third or fourth time I’d done that, she locked her legs around my thighs pulled me down and whispered in my ear, “I’m going to spank you for being such a fucking tease, and I think you’re really going to like it.”
And that’s exactly what she did. I went back the slow grind and she started smacking my ass. When she finally started to orgasm she stopped smacking and grabbed both of my now red stinging ass cheeks and squeezed. After her orgasm, she went right back to smacking my ass. I was so completely under her spell and that orgasm was life changing. I loved surrendering myself to her.
A couple have tried it, I found/find it funny more than alluring. I don’t have any interest in faking being submissive.
My wife is a beast. Technically our first time was in her office at her job. Sat on my lap and just did whatever she wanted. We got cut short though but yeah, shes always been pretty dominant like that. Usually she will just be in her underware and go, I’m going to the bathroom get ready. LOL! I love this girl even though she drives me bat shit crazy.
Wife likes to be the more dominant person in bed. Likes to be on top often and control the play. Took some time getting used to, but I enjoy. She likes to tie me up / tease / edge and more.. (but she does love her massages). I think she missed her calling as a dominatrix and is taking it out on me. 😆
I’m pretty take compared to these posts but when I’m the boss at work I like a woman that takes charge and knows what she wants. For me that’s her being vocal or giving some direction “i want to be on top”, “I want you to fuck me from behind or just rolling us over so she can get on top or whatever.
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My wife grabbed The back of my head and made me lick her clean after I came in her. Very out of character but it was loved
My ex slapped me and choked me randomly one time and liked to bite but I definitely wasn’t a fan but this is stuff she liked being done to her. I was then called boring for not being into pain the same way she was.
I’ve had a woman hold my hands by my sides and tease me with her mouth and not letting me move. I really liked it for a bit but after a while it was just a bit annoying and I wasn’t able to stay excited I was just getting bored and it lost its charm. I think I’m just a hypocrite because I do the same thing all the time and love it but I try to not drag it on until it’s more annoying than sexy and this taught me that if the woman was like me I was going on way too long and it’s only fun for so long.
I also had the same woman try to manhandle me into different positions and it was very hot to let her be in control but it lost something when she couldn’t actually move me if I was limp so I was moving myself at her direction. We tried it the other way and it basically was just her ending up in awkward positions and we learned that it was a lot less sexy than just guiding her and her doing what you told her to just this time she was comfortable and I wasn’t ruining the mood rearranging limbs so they weren’t going to lose circulation. She was also the first and only person I’d ever been with who called me daddy and I learned that in the moment it was hot but after it really cringed me out and it was only because it did something for her that it happened because it didn’t do anything for me after the first few times other than get me to think about why a guy might be into that when there are so many other names that don’t raise so many questions about why this one gets her going and her relationship with her dad is great but she still loved it and I just dealt with it and gave up trying to understand why and I have to say I don’t miss that now because my current partners dad and I have a great relationship and I don’t think I would want to dissect why she was into it and I wouldn’t feel like it was making love it would just be raw sex because how could you be passionate and loving when you’re being called daddy without it feeling all kinds of wrong.
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When I was an immature 23 year old, I met a 34 year old lady at bar who took me home and taught me about prostate orgasms. She didn’t peg me, but she had prostate massages down to an art form (fingers). Looking back, she was gross as hell and definitely predatory and it was all about her, but still, she introduced me to something I definitely never would have explored on my own. I guess she was dominant with experience and intent, but fortunately that was as far as it went.
One of my partners is very much into primal play, I liked it too, and we switch between who is “prey”.
But in general, I think virtually always I was assumed and expected to be the dominating one (even outside a BDSM-ish context).
I love pain, I like being choked, I like being disciplined in some way. So about 30% of the time she tries to be the more dominant one, until she realises I’m still in control and I allow it about half the time
Several times. Most notably, I ran a role play when I turned my home into a “sex party”. Changed every room in the house to fit the play. Each room had a different kind of sex worker in it. In one room was a “worker” used to dominating the “clients”. Well my wife’s role was to turn that all around on him (me). She took great pleasure in taking on that role 100%
My wife loves to be dominant from time to time. I love it since she climaxes several times more than when she’s not as aggressive.
Hells yeah I did. I work a very dominant and leadership role at work (Captain at an airline). Being able to be submissive in bed on occasion is so hot and a nice change!
It doesn’t have to be crazy. Just her telling me what to do, what she wants, and objectifying me is enough. It’s great!
I had my face aggressively smothered. I have been in love with it since.
Wow I really thought it was a common thing in bed that a girl takes the dominant role from time to time. How can it be not?
im a cuckold one time she had him finish of on her high heels snd was then orderd to lick it off
My ex got into being dominant, it was so hot. She liked it if I stayed naked, made me wear a cage from time to time, and pegged me
Big turn off for me.
Years ago an old girlfriend and I were having a slow sensuous session. I was on top and every time she got close to orgasm I’d stop for a second or change the rhythm, just being a tease. We’d both laugh and she’d give me this lust filled smile..after the third or fourth time I’d done that, she locked her legs around my thighs pulled me down and whispered in my ear, “I’m going to spank you for being such a fucking tease, and I think you’re really going to like it.”
And that’s exactly what she did. I went back the slow grind and she started smacking my ass. When she finally started to orgasm she stopped smacking and grabbed both of my now red stinging ass cheeks and squeezed. After her orgasm, she went right back to smacking my ass. I was so completely under her spell and that orgasm was life changing. I loved surrendering myself to her.
A couple have tried it, I found/find it funny more than alluring. I don’t have any interest in faking being submissive.
My wife is a beast. Technically our first time was in her office at her job. Sat on my lap and just did whatever she wanted. We got cut short though but yeah, shes always been pretty dominant like that. Usually she will just be in her underware and go, I’m going to the bathroom get ready. LOL! I love this girl even though she drives me bat shit crazy.
Wife likes to be the more dominant person in bed. Likes to be on top often and control the play. Took some time getting used to, but I enjoy. She likes to tie me up / tease / edge and more.. (but she does love her massages). I think she missed her calling as a dominatrix and is taking it out on me. 😆
I’m pretty take compared to these posts but when I’m the boss at work I like a woman that takes charge and knows what she wants. For me that’s her being vocal or giving some direction “i want to be on top”, “I want you to fuck me from behind or just rolling us over so she can get on top or whatever.