What changes did you make in the bedroom to stop being a pillow princess?
April 25, 2026
What changes did you make in the bedroom to stop being a pillow princess?
7 comments
Learned BJ and HJ skills. But also it’s completely okay to be a pillow princess when you’re with somebody who’s into that, and at a certain point I stopped trying to fight my natural sexuality when I realized that plenty of people find it very hot.
Learned I orgasm way faster when I am on top.
Willingness to try new things.
Step up my B and HJ skills.
I had a lot of deconstructing to do to learn to love my sexuality. Having a patient partner helps too.
I genuinely thought this was about pillows… I was going to say I still have five pillows and nothing will change that.
Pillow under the hips in missionary and pronebone
Finding a partner who doesn’t suck goes a long way
Pillow Princess isn’t a bad thing and is a term used originally and primarily in WLW spaces.
It’s been co-opted and mistakenly used in place of “starfish”.
A lot easier to do some work if you’re in shape. Or if you’re the one suggesting some new positions(a quick google will give lots of options, especially the Kama Sutra!!!)
But finding different positions that give you control without doing tons of work is a great move! Really knocked my ex’s socks off with some new positions.
7 comments
Learned BJ and HJ skills. But also it’s completely okay to be a pillow princess when you’re with somebody who’s into that, and at a certain point I stopped trying to fight my natural sexuality when I realized that plenty of people find it very hot.
Learned I orgasm way faster when I am on top.
Willingness to try new things.
Step up my B and HJ skills.
I had a lot of deconstructing to do to learn to love my sexuality. Having a patient partner helps too.
I genuinely thought this was about pillows… I was going to say I still have five pillows and nothing will change that.
Pillow under the hips in missionary and pronebone
Finding a partner who doesn’t suck goes a long way
Pillow Princess isn’t a bad thing and is a term used originally and primarily in WLW spaces.
It’s been co-opted and mistakenly used in place of “starfish”.
A lot easier to do some work if you’re in shape. Or if you’re the one suggesting some new positions(a quick google will give lots of options, especially the Kama Sutra!!!)
But finding different positions that give you control without doing tons of work is a great move! Really knocked my ex’s socks off with some new positions.