I feel like because of how terrible modern dating can be that we settle for less and less as time goes on. I forgot what it's like when somebody is actually into you. This woman I met recently has been amazing since day one. Constant communication, is obviously attracted to me, compliments, random calls, etc. Literally left me with zero wonder about how she feels about me. After countless dates with people who make it hard to just get a simple text back it's really refreshing. As people have said millions of times before, someone whos actually interested in you will show they're interested in you.


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  4. Honey moon phase, give it 3-8 months, if it’s still positive with no glaring red flags then you start celebrating and looking towards the future.

  5. Cherish it and make sure you are reciprocating or you will get dropped out of the blue. That’s at least what happened to me

  7. I am having the same exact experience with the guy I’m dating. So happy to hear you are too. No bullshit! Full and *true* communication!

    How lucky are we?!

  10. I’m experiencing this right now, and initially I thought this was love bombing lol , because typically i was the one chasing . He’s very respectful,  full sentence responses, texts instantly, never leaves me on red. We onlyhad 2 dates, but he showed up on time prepared with jokes and deep conversations. And he continues to initiate texting trying to keep the momentum,  while we’re getting to know each other.  No sexting,  no awkwardness,  no future plans, no labels,  just enjoying whatever this is. 

    And if this doesn’t work out,  the bar is pretty high now. Lol 

  11. my first gf was like this. it only lasted about 7 months but they are some of the happiest 7 months of my life

  14. Did all of this … he didn’t reciprocate…. Now I’m going through this heartbreak 💔

  15. I was bored one night and opened Luvveli. Few messages later, I had a great hookup. It’s honestly the best dating app for quick results.

  17. Yesss I’m experiencing this too, it’s crazy 😂😭 I still can’t quite believe it’s happening

  18. Had this same situation with a amazing woman that I also met recently. I was so excited and happy, it lasted a few months though.

    My advice? Don’t get attached this is their manipulation tactic. Take it easy take it slow

  19. My horrific experiences immediately made me think “it’s a narcissist love bombing you.”

  20. Ive had a few and it didn’t work but it is honestly THE BEST feeling. Its so rare these days unfortunately:(

    Glad for you, OP!!!

  21. That’s how I felt when I met my wife. Didn’t have to mask my true thoughts or feelings, didn’t have to act like anyone other than myself…zero doubts in my mind that she was my person and I was hers.

  22. I wouldn’t get to exited. She’ll more than likely lose interest by next week. They are all like that. Smh

  24. I was about to post about a similar experience earlier today. I started going on a couple dates with a woman recently who is COMPLETELY DIFFERENT from everything else I’ve experienced. Always enthusiastic, texts me regularly, wants to plan all kinds of activities, talks about “we should do X,” etc. It’s pretty incredible

  25. yeah this is honestly such a different feeling

    when someone actually likes you, it doesn’t feel like guessing games anymore. you’re not sitting there rereading texts or trying to figure out what something “meant”

    it just feels… easy in a way that’s almost weird at first

    like they text you back normally, they call you, they compliment you without you fishing for it. and you’re not wondering where you stand because they kind of show you

    and it’s kind of sad how long “inconsistent” starts to feel normal in dating before you get reminded that it doesn’t have to be like that

    but yeah, when it’s real interest, you don’t really have to decode anything. you just feel it

  26. seems like once in a blue moon this happens 😂 every guy ever has been so passive on apps and it’s let me to believe it’s rare when they’re not. Aussie men suck out here

  28. I think the issue is everyone is trying to play this game of tug of war on who wants the other person more. A lot of people don’t like coming across as desperate and because of that, they don’t let themselves show affection or care. It’s really counter-productive though because if you come across too nonchalant, people are just going to assume you’re not interested and give up or move on.

    Please men and women – if you like somebody, just show them. Don’t play games.

  29. Experiencing this currently and it’s wonderful! Never really knew it was a possibility

  30. I dunno if it’s just me but reading this is a breath of fresh air. Good for you for finding the right person.

  31. If someone is genuinely into you, you wont have to guess, trust consistency and effort, and dont go back to people who make you feel uncertain all the time.

  34. Yeah from my personal experience,I thought I was in a dream,I didn’t think anyone would like me who has a big womanish voice even tho I’m still 17-18 we met in a moba game which I just play for friends,so whenever I love I don’t blame them,even defends them when public gets toxic, that’s the trait she likes about me and one month later of constantly playing and flirting,she asked me out and even tho sometimes things get Abit toxic cuz of stress,we didn’t lose the spark even after a year cuz we’re open with what we wanted in each other, she’s lovely and everything is amazing,if I told my younger self that I’d get to date a beautifully stunning woman from another country, he’d say it’s bs heh,what an hope to my disappointment in modern dating… and for those girls who are hesitant to ask your boys,just give it a try, most likely answer would be “yes” if he’s a good boy XD

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