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Didn’t cry this week about being single! Guess that’s a win in itself. Feeling miserable. Considering a dating app subscription as a 31F who has gone on tons of dates and gets hit on. In a pretty sour headspace
It seems monstrously unfair that you can have a great connection and physical chemistry with someone only for a dealbreaker like religion completely kill that potential.
Square one, my old friend.
I’m not sure – but my boyfriend of over a year and I may have just broken up. I have never been around anyone where I could be completely myself. We live together. And we were figuring out when to even get engaged.
But these last few weeks, I have felt anxious and felt in some way, I was carrying a big load. He was feeling inadequate. And when I brought up these things the last few times, he felt like he wasn’t good enough. And this morning, as he was apologizing, he said – maybe you deserve better than me. This isn’t going to work.
I’m devastated and confused. I’ve been tired, but I really felt that we could work it out. And now I’m not sure where we will go from here.
This guy at work is quite sweet and sociable so idk if I’m mistaking friendliness for interest. And cause it’s at work it’s harder to decode.
There’s been moments I catch them looking at me as I walk past and it’s for a good 3-5 seconds while they’re talking to other people.
He also gives thoughtful comments every now and again like checking in how I’m doing when I had a rough day.
Or waving at me from across the room… or greeting with a beaming grin like this ☺️
Idk if it’s the contrast with other people I’ve come across at work that makes his actions feel like he’s doing the little extra something, or is this just who he is as a person?
Unfortunately, learned the woman I have a date with on Sunday is moving to Montana in a few weeks.
Fortunately, we’re still hanging out Sunday…just with a casual mindset instead ¯\_(ツ)_/¯