what do you envy mostly ?

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1. Independence. I had such a sheltered and controlling upbringing that I feel like I never grew out of being a child. I can’t relate to my peers at all as a 21-year-old woman. They’re so grown compared to me. I need to be driven everywhere, need someone to accompany me wherever I go (and I go out in public only like 5 times per month), have never had a job, have never had my own money, etc. My parents enable all of this so I can’t see myself breaking out of this vicious circle. It’s weird ’cause I’m self-aware but at the same time I can’t see ways to make a change.

2. Women with long legs and muscular calves. I have short little green bean sprouts and no amount of $ spent on fancy hosiery will make them look amazing.

3. Beautiful, skinny women.

4. Nothing.

5. women who are naturally pretty

6. People with perfect teeth.

7. To those who travel the world without worrying about money

8. When people know exactly what to say in social situations. Sometimes it gets awkward and my years of training myself socially through customer service doesn’t cover it.

9. People who appear to have better lives than me 😂

   Prettier. Skinnier. Fitter. Nicer dress/makeup. Living in better areas. Having better jobs and opportunities. Having loving/decent partners etc…

   I am happy for people and they deserve to have good lives but most of the time I live in a state of shame and embarrassment feeing like a loser for not having X/Y/Z…(I did everything my mum/family wanted me to do and I am still not anywhere near where I thought I would be or particularly happy lol).

10. a lot of things? rn i envy that men get to be so much more care free than women and it fucking sucks. my boyfriends on a lads holiday rn, and the things they get up to with no care in the world because they’re men and it’s all ok because there’s no ulterior motive to be scared of, whereas i know that i as a woman couldn’t do half those things. i’m quite a wild person tbh i just always feel stuck because of my gender and then i feel like we’re not as fun as men because we don’t get to do as wild things, when really it’s the society that stops us from being as care free

11. People who aren’t chronically ill

12. People who don’t let their anxiety control their lives. People who overcome living with crippling anxiety.

13. People who valued time and made the most of it.

14. Cis women. They just easily get recognized as a woman in the society. While I tried all I could try and do terrible things to myself and my body, still get misgendered on street and my mom still called me her “son”.

15. My life before my brother died

16. Boobs that sit “pretty” (no sag, nipples aren’t facing down and out, you get the vibe) and people without chronic pain

17. People with rich parents who get everything shoved up their asses.

    To all who write skinnier, more beautiful women.
    I don’t know how old you are, but I used to be the same opinion when I was younger. Until I realize that, from a purely intellectual point of view, people who only focus on outward appearances don’t appeal to me at all. I don’t want to waste my time with people who have no idea about charisma, charm, style and attitude, but only focus on 55kg at 175 cm and a doll’s face.

18. Independence and beauty. Also body size. I’m plus sized, so literally seeing anyone smaller than me makes me jealous.

19. People who found a healthy/fulfilling romantic relationship easily — like, one of the first people they dated just so happened to be a great match and lead to a happy, committed relationship. Must be nice 🙃😭

20. Women with really successful careers and financially independent. My work life has been really weird and I am just very undecided on what I want to do that I will be good at and a career that I can be passionate about and make good money. Lol. That’s my goal and I envy women who are already there

21. People that don’t have to work

22. The women who can eat anything they want, not worry about exercising, and still are skinny or fit-looking. I know that gaining weight can be just as hard as losing weight, but the way people treat you is completely different

23. Women who married well and don’t have to work.

24. Women who have easy pregnancies.

25. Richer people with homes where they can each have there own rooms, travel whenever to wherever and are pretty and can have regular hair and nail appointments 🥲

26. Women with big boobs haha