After telling me to my face he would be honest about going and hanging out with females (because I don’t mind as long as he can be honest) he then makes plans to do just that but doesn’t inform me of them. Then before he could follow through with the plans the day of he cancels them by telling the girl he had plans he forgot about he, did inform her that he would see if he had time after his plans …

I know he is feeling caught up because I read unopened messages to gain this info (don’t judge me… Womens intuition) but now I’m still sitting here wondering why lie to her about why he can’t go if he’s not cheating? Why not tell me you made plans instead of planting the seed that you’ll be working?

I need a guys perspective PLEASE! Is it because he’s scared to admit it or what? I’m waiting to see if he will tell me the truth since it’s obviously why he cancelled, I definitely feel like he’s gonna try to tell me kinda nonchalant and see how I react .. but I’m mainly waiting to see if he admits to it all really or just says he’s going to hang with the guys and goes there instead….

TL;DR: Trying to figure out if my fiancé is keeping things from me for the simple fact that he lies to females about why he can’t hangout!

3 comments
  1. I’m not great at this so maybe don’t listen to me but it sounds like he was planning on cheating and chickened out. I would guess that he has not cheated on you yet but chances are he thought about it so he might one day.

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