What will you do if your terminally cancer stricken partner/wife request you to let her sleep with someone for one time as a hallpass?

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1. I think this is something you ask a therapist.

2. In sickness and in health

3. That’s really something for you and your partner to figure out.
   Every relationship works how it works best for them, and your particular situation is a more unique one that probably requires a bit more care and consideration.
   If time allows, a therapist may be worth seeing to go through the emotions and such of this situation.

4. To be honest? Leaving her to die alone. Even dying is no excuse to do such a thing. Especially if you’ve been helping her and loving her and you’ve stayed with her when no one else probably would. And she asks that? She could honestly go fuck off in my life

5. I would break up with her

6. Personally thats a No from me. If she wants to spend some of her last remaining time sleeping with someone else then im out. Its a hard time emotionally for both sides, but Id seriously be wondering how much love is there for me if sleeping with someone else is That important.

7. It would never occur to her. But if she did, I’d say “sure”, and in return she’d set me up with a pair of nymphomaniac gymnast twins, then it would turn out that the lab report was for someone else entirely and she was perfectly healthy, and the four of us would have a FFFM happily ever after. (Ask silly questions, get silly answers)

8. Divorce. Which can also be a great way to avoid unpaid medical when they pass.

9. That’s cheating. Absolutely not

10. Nope. If she doesn’t love me anymore that’s fine. But I won’t be her care provider if she wants to bang other men on her way out.

    The request for a hall pass would be enough for me to walk.

11. Big nope.

12. I’m in a polyamorous relationship… so as long as the third party is cleared of diseases etc it’s fine.

13. She’s terminal. She’s about to die, let her do it. She’s still the same person you love just with an odd before I die request.

14. Depends on the reasoning. I think the way the question is asked leaves out a lot of potential nuances.

    Just one nuance as an example:

    We’ve been together for eight years now, so right now, no.

    If we came to a scenario where we had been together for 30 years and the only things she’s been sleeping with this whole time is me, her handsome potato, then perhaps?

15. go for it. and she’s your partner now.

16. Sure, just sign these papers first…

17. I guess it depends if you guys swing or not. Normal rules should apply…

18. I’d question the whole relationship wonder if she ever loved me or if she had cheated on me or if she was ever truly happy with me. I’d say no but by then the relationship is over. I’d half ass her care now it’s just a chore

19. Get a quick divorce.

20. I tried to get her to do that when she is healthy. Doubt her last wish it to fuck another guy when she is sick and dying.