So me and my boyfriend were doing the doo doooo and after we were done he saw that he got a text from his friend saying that his discord mic was on (he was in a call) that was sent 30 minutes ago LOL. I saw my bf mute his mic but i guess something happened and it unmuted for some reason. So the mic was on while we were doing the doodoo. My bf asked him if he heard anything and he said he heard screaming (?) weird cause we were more intimate and quiet during it but I remembered we were play fighting and tickling eachother beforehand so it could’ve been that. But the important part is that his friend made a joke saying like “you beating her?” and “i heard her saying ahhhhh help” (which is a joke since i didn’t lol) and my bf joked back saying “yeaa i’m toxic” This kinda made me uncomfortable. Like joking about him hurting me feels a bit off. Any thoughts? Would anyone else be uncomfortable with this too. How should i approach this
TLDR: My bf joked with his friend about hurting me and it made me uncomfortable
2 comments
Looks like that he’s doing this on purpose. You’re like an object in his life and things won’t get better after this. You don’t know if he muted his mic or not. Just bc he told you doesn’t mean he did. You have a pretty shady person you’re dealing with tbh.
Just seems like a joke in poor taste, but I doubt he meant anything by it in my opinion x