How often do you compare your current partner to previous ones (subconsciously)?
May 8, 2023
How often do you compare your current partner to previous ones (subconsciously)?
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If it was subconscious how would I know?
I don’t compare my partner to previous partners, but I do compare the emotions I feel to emotions I felt while in previous partnerships, and notice patterns or discrepancies.
Subconsciously? I have no idea.
Consciously? All the time. My ex was a piece of crap. My husband does nice things and says nice things all the time.
I’m confused by word subconsciously. Do you mean without voicing it to your current partner?
I don’t compare my partners at all, I reflect on my own growth as a person and the behaviour I want to be around and accept. Right now, I’m in a wonderful relationship which is built on equality, teamwork, respect, care and friendship and that’s all that matters. 🧡🕺🏻
Never.
Just like how I’d never compare apples to oranges, or cars to computers consciously or subconsciously…
6 comments
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If it was subconscious how would I know?
I don’t compare my partner to previous partners, but I do compare the emotions I feel to emotions I felt while in previous partnerships, and notice patterns or discrepancies.
Subconsciously? I have no idea.
Consciously? All the time. My ex was a piece of crap. My husband does nice things and says nice things all the time.
I’m confused by word subconsciously. Do you mean without voicing it to your current partner?
I don’t compare my partners at all, I reflect on my own growth as a person and the behaviour I want to be around and accept. Right now, I’m in a wonderful relationship which is built on equality, teamwork, respect, care and friendship and that’s all that matters. 🧡🕺🏻
Never.
Just like how I’d never compare apples to oranges, or cars to computers consciously or subconsciously…