What are your honest thoughts on women you envy regarding their appearance?

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1. “I wish I looked like that”

   What the fuck else did you expect?

2. Wish I had an ass like that lol… 😪 😆

3. I don’t do envy really. I do “fuck, she’s hot” and “I wish I could be that glamorous” and occasionally “how did she get her hair to do that.” There is no dislike.

4. I don’t really envy anyone about their appearance. If I see someone I think is particularly aesthetically pleasing, I tend to think something like, ‘wow. She has amazing style’ or ‘beautiful!’ or ‘she seems so cool’ and then I move on with my day. I don’t dislike them or anything like that. I don’t even know them if we are talking a total stranger

5. I don’t envy, I just think wow she looks amazing.

6. I just think how easily they must fit in. Then I wonder how other people see me, like am I Shrek compared to them?

7. I wouldn’t dislike them, that’s unhinged.. I’d think, good for her winning that genetic lottery and keep it moving

8. I don’t envy women for how they look. If a lady’s hot I just hope she’s gay too.

9. I don’t envy others for something I have no control over. I’ll admire them and then move on

10. I don’t really envy because I love my body. But when a girl has a nice bum I always appreciate it or a flatter stomach.

11. I don’t envy anyone. Better to focus on yourself

12. I honestly don’t really notice anyone’s appearance much at all unless I think you’re really attractive. In which case I’ll wonder if she’s gay or I’m dreaming.

13. Usually I want to know how tf they did that with their hair or wish my hair would do that.

    Sometimes I like their style or think they are pretty hot. If I particularly like their style a lot I may ask where they got their outfit or compliment it. However sometimes because of my height in just left kinda jealous because usually cute stuff doesn’t get made for women who are 6’1.

    I’m also quite jealous of people with smaller breasts that get to wear pretty bras.

    However I don’t dislike them.

14. Envy doesn’t make me dislike others, it makes me dislike myself. Or at least it draws attention to how much I dislike myself

15. I don’t look from a place of envy, I more so admire and move on.

16. “Pretty”

    Then I’ll stare for a couple more minutes before zoning out again

17. I don’t envy a woman based on appearance alone, it’s all superficial and all can be achieved easily through makeup, ps or Botox.

    But I will admire strong women who are comfortable in their own skin, and who have “made it” despite obstacles and setbacks in life.

18. Being beautiful would be nice, but the truth is that a lot of my naturally beautiful relatives and friends are vain. The other truth is that many didn’t look after themselves because they were used to having attention effortlessly, and become overweight.

    Finally, beautiful woman have a raw deal. Men are so eager that they gas them up to the point that the woman don’t have a good sense if their actual strengths and weaknesses, and therefore their self-esteem is fragile. They are also more likely to be used and mistreated. And that can fuck up their mental health.

19. usually just kind of calm and whatever about it. like it is what it is, i am who i am. i have spent enough energy in internal/external lifemaxxing that it’s better to just accept how life is. there will always be a prettier girl, there is no universal diamond tier of glamor. even the most to die for women have insecurities.