So I am in a new relationship with someone and things have been moving fast after just one date we both agreed we didn’t want to meet anyone else and became official.
We have only know each other month but have been spending a lot of time together, been sleeping together most nights and spending days together.
Anyway she said to me yesterday while we were kissing “I really like you” and in the heat of the moment I blurted out “ well I think I love you” she said “isn’t it too soon to say that” and I kind of agree after one month.
I already realised I love her but wanted to wait a bit longer and to say it somewhere special. I said sorry after that and stated that I said it too soon and she said it’s no problem at all and no issue was made out of it.
I just feel a bit stupid that slipped out so early and just worried messed things up, what are your opinions based on your experience
TL;DR Gf said I really like you and I said I think I love you back. She didn’t say I love you back and said isn’t it too soon to say that. Have I messed everything up?
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My opinion is that it’s fine to get carried away sometimes. Embarrassing but harmless. Go on really liking each other for a while longer and everything will sort itself out.
It sounds like it went okay in spite of it being too soon for her. I think that with these sorts of things where you’re a bit over-eager, they don’t really negatively affect the relationship. If she is into you a lot, then it will roll off her back and things will be fine. And if she’s not into you a lot then it will be a little off-putting, but if she wasn’t into you that much then it probably wasn’t really going anywhere anyway.
One can’t really fully know a person in a month, so yes it is too soon, but you can clear it up and make her more comfortable by telling her you love what you know about her so far and can’t wait to see things grow.