I (F,19) met this guy (M,21) from a dating app. We talked for weeks before meeting irl and there were indications that he is into me, which im completely fine with cus i had a little crush on him too. On our first date we went to see the movies and we went back to his place. I told him it’s better not to have sex yet and take things slow cus i wanted him to stick around for a long time, which he understood. And after an entire night of talking, he finally told me that he likes me, and i told him i liked him back. After that moment we got intimate and it was a wonderful time.
A day after our date everything was okay with us. Our conversations were like the usual but i feel him slowly pulling away from me. He texted me less than he used to and he doesn’t even show the same enthusiasm when talking to me.
I just don’t understand why he acts like this. I mean i was really convinced that he liked me. On our date, I caught him staring at me while he’s smiling several times. And one time he stopped playing video games to watch me eat and said “ur much cuter in person.” And before i left his place he reminded me to check if im missing any of my belongings and to give him kisses.
HE WAS SO ADORABLE LIKE??? I just don’t really understand why he is acting like this. I like him so much and im freaking out idk what to do
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Really hard to say, it might be difficult to get the truth from him. Was he just looking for a ONS? Was he just overwhelmed by you and is having a hard time processing? Is there another girl he’s talking to? Just the tip of the iceberg of possible reasons.
Best you can do is try to talk to him, good luck!
this is common behavior, idk why they do this but it’s really common, ig they get what they want and then leave. just start getting over him
His soul motive get completed and now he wanna get rid of you that’s why he’s behaving like that.