Hey guys,
So one day before the exams started in February, my best friend started acting very weirdly. She stopped texting me and her replies to my text messages were always dry and curt. She never suggested to hung out, despite going out with other people! At first I thought she was stressed out about exams. After the exams period though, she continued acting cold and distant. I even found out she blocked my number for several days which she denied. The last week, everytime I saw her at college she acted friendly enough but still something felt off. On Monday we even went to a college party had a lot of fun and the next day she called me and canceled all our plans for the week.
Meanwhile she hungs out with this new girl constantly. They go together to all the places we used to go, they sit together at lectures etc. It seems as if I was completely erased and replaced.. And what is truly weird is that her attitude changed overnight. We never had a fall out and we spent a huge amount together.
How should I act for now on? Should I continue being friends with her or cut her off completely?
tl;dr: Best friend distanced herself for unknown reason and only hungs out with another girl.
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There’s more to it than meets the eye. She’s either learned something about you she didn’t like, became toxic and figured she got what she needed out of you, or was maybe even told something untrue. If she denies having blocked your number she’s most likely unwilling to talk things out like a normal human being. Make sure you’re airtight maybe follow her with a fake account on one of her social media pages, if she drops you it may be hard she may say things that aren’t true to make her seem like a victim in the friendship and that is the reason you no longer hang out.