Was any of your ex-lover a perfect match for you as Life-Partner (looooong-partnership), but you have to let them go because of they are too good to be true, or bcoz of current issues in life. What other reasons made you leave them?

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1. I think “perfect” is just a very relative term here. People may be just what you need at that specific point in your life. But then maybe five years down the line, things have changed and it’s just not like that anymore.

2. Too good to be true is a weird one. No matter who it is, I sus them out from the beginning and can percieve any potential flaws that would come up – there’s no surprises if I’m being really honest with myself.

3. Being from different castes and his family’s disapproval after convincing them for 3 years, (relationship was on 5+ years).
   He was my perfect match and my bestfriend too. I lost both now!

4. was in a 3 year relationship with someone i was very very compatible with. towards the end of our relationship, i was going through something temporarily stressful so my sex drive was very low and we stopped having regular sex for about a year and i guess he couldn’t handle it, so he ended things with me. im in a new relationship now with a wonderful partner with my sex drive back but sad that my former partner couldn’t wait for me to get over my challenges. still not sure i will meet someone as compatible as my previous partner.