Some background: I(30M) moved to the city from a small-ish town about 2+ years ago but because of work and other things, I haven’t had much opportunity to go out. Well, I got back from vacation with the fam for the holidays and was feeling bored in my apartment, was a little tipsy from some pregaming and decided to finally check out a local strip club because I still had the next day off on vacation.
So I go to the strip club and it’s completely empty (I went on a Monday but I know it was an observed holiday for many places so I was expecting some people there). It’s a nice yet small place with two stages (1 on each side with tables in the middle), staff and bouncers were actually pretty cool and welcoming, the girls were about average except for a couple stunners. I sit down in the middle of the floor, one girl was dancing, I watched her for a bit before the waitress/bartender girl came over to take my drink order. Before my drink came a girl asked to keep me company, not my type so I politely declined (having standards at a strip club, kinda counter productive no? Lol) my drink came and another girl got on the stage behind me, I slowly turn around and throw some glances her way but she isn’t my type either so whatever. Anyways, I’m still the only guy there and was about to order my next drink when another another stripper asks to keep me company, she was cute so I decided why not. Well long story short we really hit it off and she was very good conversationalist, made it seem like she was interested in what I had to say and apologized for interrupting or if I was in the middle of a though. After like half an hour to an hour of talking, we ended up going to a private room and I got talked into a more private champagne room. Before I know it our 1hr is up, things were getting heated and I decided what’s 1 more hr. This hour we ended up talking and confiding more with some more dancing and humping in the last half. At the end of it I gave her a decent cash tip (at least I think so, all subjective I guess) and she offered to give me her number to hit her up next time I visit. I agreed, our second hr ended, the club closed about 10-15 minutes later, and the club gave me a black suburban ride home. However, as I’m waiting for the ride I noticed the girl has completely disappeared. After I get home I texted the girl thanking her for the fun night and I’m sorry she couldn’t see me off.
But now what? Im not sure when I’ll be back to that club again, I don’t think I can justify going back and getting another room, at least this month (trying to do better at budgeting, great way to start the year I know haha).
My question is, what do I do with the girl’s number? It’s not that I won’t ever be back but I don’t plan to go back anytime soon. If she said it’s so I can hit her up next time I go, would it be inappropriate to hit her up outside of that? Should I just delete it and forget all about her until next time I go, but what if she remembers and I pop in without hitting her up?
Dumb questions I know but thanks in advance!
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Gonna be that guy. Her job is to make you feel like this. If you see her on tinder or something definitely shoot your shot. But too early to tell.
> would it be inappropriate to hit her up outside of that?
yes
keep her number for next time
Dude…you bought a service off her. She gave you her number for business reasons, not personal ones. If you don’t want to buy the service again, don’t call the number. This isn’t that confusing
Just curious…
You said you texted her that it was too bad she couldn’t see you off. Did she ever respond to that text?
If no, then I’d say don’t bother texting outside of your not going back. You spent 2 hours with her in the Champagne Room and gave her a decent tip. She most likely gave the number because she wants more money from you
She wants your money buddy, she was not interested in you. She wants u to hit her up when u go so she can get your cash and not have u pay another chick 😂
If she was interested, happens all the time, she would have said she wanted to hang out outside of work. That’s not what happened
Delete her number and never go back to that place. Like bro, I thought everyone knew strippers aren’t actually interested in you. Go meet some nice girls in real life and hopefully you look back on this post and get embarrassed in a few months.
Exactly what Fox said This was all business. Delete the number and move on..
She hopes to see you soon – maybe payday!
She told you she wanted you to contact her next time you visit the club. That means she gave you her number for professional reasons only.
She’s an escort on the side. If you wanna fuck her that’ll be $300 and a guy will wait outside your motel if you try anything funny ready to beat the shit out of you. This post is 100% serious. No shame for paying for sex. Your call.