Looong long story short, a few months ago he asked me for advice on this girl he likes. He said i know her really well. He legit then proceeded to describe me to me, telling me this is something deeper than a crush. All while hoping id guess its me lol i caught on when he said the holidays and trips “she’d” been on. I was so perturbed i just said idk and got off the call.
I realised he wasnt gonna back off as he started getting more and more forward.
I messaged him saying im sorry if i you gave the wrong impression but i dont like you and that will never change. He said i never made him think i like him. So now im confused why months later he is actively trying to win me over.
Theres lots of details that add to this situation but theres so many, youd get bored lol but im happy to tell if someone asks.
tl;dr: he likes me, i dont like him, he cant comprehend that, what do i do?
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First of all, do you want to maintain any contact with him? If not, just tell him you’re not comfortable around him any more, and you would like him to not contact you again. Otherwise, any time he does something that makes you uncomfortable, speak up, “That makes me uncomfortable, please do not do/say X to me again.”
“Hey, I feel like you are still trying to pursue me. That won’t work. I’m too old for you and not interested in dating someone I could have babysat.
So I am cutting contact. You need to stop this and instead put your energy into meeting someone who sees you as an equal. “