I (21m) have a relationship now after trying for a little bit, I don’t think it will get any better and I think I can say this might be my only relationship. I’m not a normal guy, I’m a pretty short guy at 5’7 on my best day.
I met my girlfriend (22f) online and at first I thought she was a bot or just messing with me. But it turned out she was and she seemed interested in talking to me. She lives in colombia and she has 3 kids, the father isn’t in the picture.
We have been dating for a 1.5 years now and we’re neutral with each other. I’m her financial support and she has said she cares about me but I’m sure she doesn’t have strong feelings for me. I like her but this isn’t how I thought my first relationship would be.
I think this is it for me. I can’t date like a normal guy because I’m too short and its getting worse due to tiktok and dating apps. I think this might be my only relationship.
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Do you live in Colombia?
Have you ever met her in person? This sounds like a classic scam tbh
Short men can find love too, just because your short doesn’t mean you can’t find someone. Find other attributes that are attractive, maybe take up some hobbies to meet people. If you’re unhappy in your current relationship get out of there, sometimes being alone is better
5’7 is not short my dude
unless you live in one of those scandinavian countries where every fucking guy is apparently a professional athlete
>She lives in colombia and she has 3 kids, the father isn’t in the picture.
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>I’m her financial support and she has said she cares about me but I’m sure she doesn’t have strong feelings for me.
I honestly believe some men like to be used and taken for a fool. Ditch this bitch.
In what world is 5’7″ short ?? Do you live in Norway or something? So she is getting money…What exactly are you getting out of the relationship?
So what are you getting out of this relationship?
From what I can see the only benefit is being able to tell others that you are in a relationship without lying. Nevermind that it has all the hallmarks of a scam. You’re paying a lot of money for whatever it is you’re getting out of it.