TL;DR
This has been a conversation we have had since months ago but my birthday is coming up in a few weeks and a few months ago I talked to my bf about what I wanted for my Birthday. I showed him a range of things and at first it was a simple bag or some shoes . I also showed him a $3k bag and he said if I wanted it he would get it for me.
My bf is a professional hockey player and we have been together quite some time so I think he feels comfortable getting it. He mentioned that he wouldn’t mind getting it for me. I mentioned to him numerous times that he didn’t have to get it and that I’d still be happy with or without the bag but he still insisted he would get it. His sisters birthday is coming up and she asked him for a Michael kors bag and told him she didn’t want him spending more then $150. Should I feel bad for asking my bf for a $3k bag?
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I mean, if he’s still allowed to not get you the $3k bag, then there is no harm in asking for it. He can always get you something else if you gave him options. And you won’t be disappointed right? It’s a gift so I’m sure you’ll be grateful for anything.
Can you and would you ever purchase a 3k bag with your own money? If not, then it’s an unreasonable ask.
LMAO, you don’t mind asking for expensive things do you? What would you do if he spent nothing on you for your birthday? Or him wrapped up in a bow? Or flowers and a card? Just curious is all.
3k is a lot for a bag for most people.
But if that’s what you want and he can afford it what’s the problem?
Good for you! Enjoy that bag. (A sister isn’t on the same level as a GF when it comes to gift-giving, so don’t worry about that.)
He gave him a list of acceptable birthday gifts?