If you ask a guy out for dinner (casually, without mentioning it’s a date) and he accepts, does it mean he’s somewhat into you?

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1. If he accepts most likely.

2. Yes. I would imagine so… or they are just being super polite.

3. Enough for a first date, absolutely.

4. Yeah, at least enough to have dinner together. Don’t read too much into it, though. Hope you have a nice time.

5. Yep.

6. He’s probably assuming it’s a date

7. Speaking for myself no. I’ve been invited by female friends for all kinds of things such as dinners and some even called it dates. By all means neither one of us are tryna smash, just enjoy quality time.

8. Nope, guys don’t want to have dinner with you unless they are completely uninterested /s

9. It probably means he’s interested in seeing if there is something there.

   Or he’s going for the free meal

10. Yeah. It is a very rare deal for a guy to just show up in hopes of a free meal. He is more likely wanting to spend time with you and just so happen to get something to eat.

11. I’d like to help but I don’t have enough variables. Gotta know a small bit about your current interactions with him before making that decision. I don’t need private information or anything you don’t want to say

    Otherwise without this, there are too many possibilities for how he may be acting as well as what he might want.

12. Why do you not mention it’s a date I’m wondering?

    And do you not ever eat dinner with male friends, is that considered a date by itself in your culture? It wouldn’t be in mine.

13. Do people casually go out to dinner? Honestly I’ve never been out to dinner with a girl unless it was a date. So I would assume it’s a date if I were him. Lunch is more casual if you ask me.

14. No, fuck the women, im going there for the food.

15. Always get confirmation first before making expectations. I’ve just been friends with dudes and they think it’s dating and I’m just not into them like that. Just think we’re really good buds

16. Yeah. And he probably thinks it is a date too.

17. It’s certainly a good sign.

18. If you’re a girl then probably

19. He probably assumes it is a date, but you should really follow up with “so it’s a date!” or something like that just to put it out there what your intentions are.

20. I wouldn’t read too much into it without other confirmation. I have dinner with platonic female friends all the time without any expectation of romantic involvement.

21. Are you coworkers, students or acquaintances? If not, or it is out of the blue, then yes.

22. He might just be hungry….

23. Probably. Unless your good friends, he probably sees it as a date

24. Yeah pretty sure

25. Depends

26. I really wanted to say no, but he probably is. The probability is above 73%.

27. Why dance around it being a date? Let your intentions known right from the start.

28. No shit, Sherlock. We won’t waste our time

29. anyone who spends their free time with you is at least somewhat into you

30. Yes, probably.