What’s the perfect first date in your opinion?

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1. My favorite first date was when my bf came and picked me up, we went to get ice cream the. To the arcade. After we went to this nice river and just sat there and watch the sun set and the moon rise. I don’t remember if we talked much but it was very nice, and comforting. We needed up falling asleep for a little bit. And meditated. It was peaceful.

2. Many years ago, in the city which I once lived, in the historical district, there was an Italian restaurant in the basement of an old brick building. The vibe was very, very “Lady and the Tramp,” and that was my all time favorite place to take someone on a first date, followed by a nice walk around town.

3. Hiking with a little picnic thrown in

4. These are my personal ones that most girls seem to like
   Arcade

   Escape room

   Zoo/ aquarium
   ( Find out what hobby she has and ask her to teach you how because you’ve never done it )

   Go watch a movie( at a theater not Netflix)

   Invite her over for dinner and play a board game( not monopoly,something new like cards against humanity or pick your poison” p.s (I cannot emphasize this enough make sure your house is clean

   Invite her over to cook together( this can be done at the same time as the last one

   Another thing I do is debate ( so while we are eating I ask a question and then play devil’s advocate) don’t be an asshole simply debate if she says the sky is blue I say ” I’ve always wondered if colors are accurate, what If we’ve been wrong this whole time ” this is good for me because I like girls who can think

   You could do nature walks and just pick each others brain?

   If all else fails try going to the mall with her , this will help get a sense of who she is and what she likes
   Once had a girl ignore all the clothing stores in the mall and all she wanted was a churro and we went to a few anime stores and bought stuffed animals , I love this girls and I’m still with her
   But remember my friend these may not work for every man/woman
   You may find guys or girls who don’t like these things and that’s ok, there’s always other things to do ??
   I hope you have a great date

5. There’s a place near me that just serves pies and cocktails, it’s a great first date spot. Then go walk around the area, visit a park, etc.

   First dates don’t need to be crazy fancy. Short with an easy out or extension so if you or she aren’t feeling the vibe you can bail – or extend it. I mean you really just want to get to know each other well enough to see if you want a second date.

6. My GF and I had a nondescript first date. We met at a restaurant, had an unremarkable dinner, but neither of us took our eyes off the other. The waitress kept asking if we needed anything until we finally realized she was trying to clear her table. We went out to her car, and sat there and talked (held her hand for a bit) until the lot was almost empty. Neither of us wanted to leave. Texted her to make sure she got home and we ended up texting the rest of the night.

   I wouldn’t change a thing. It was perfect.

7. Cafe. (Brunch)

   Then a walk through a park and then maybe a activity (mini golf).

   Easy way to walk away if its over.

8. One where she doesn’t spend over $50 and wants to see me again.

9. The one I can actually get.

10. anything where you’re both having fun lowkey. Personally I would find anything a date as long as it’s fun and lasts longer than like 45 minutes. So at least like an hour basically

11. Not spending a dime and getting laid.

12. 11/11/1111.

13. What are your shared interests?

14. Get drunk in a vacant lot listening to music on a boombox, maybe do some drugs, give each other head…. probably eat a really delicious salad at some point.

15. Grabbing a few beers in a really cool bar, enjoying the vibe, laughing a lot, and then heading to my place for hot sex.

16. Invite her over for some BBQ. She helps preparing the food and salads. She sees what a great BBQ king you are. After the meal we go sit infront of the fire place with some coffee or tea.