My wife and I have been married for a little over a year. Every aspect of our relationship is absolutely amazing, except for sex and really any physical intimacy. So for the past few months we’ve had sex only a hand full of times if that. If I ask for anything along the lines of physical intimacy I get shot down and she gets upset with me. She recently has been saying that I don’t feel good inside her at all. And last night I learned that she gets absolutely no enjoyment out of sex or really anything physical. I am just kind of at a loss because it wasn’t always like this until recently and from the beginning we both communicated what our “love languages” are and mine are physical and emotional as we’re hers. Part of me feels like we should keep talking about this until we come up with a solution (like we’ve been doing for the past few months), but honestly the other part of me just wants to give up and just (try) and cut sex out of my life or at the very least keep my romantic life very separate from my sex life.
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Has anything changed recently in her life? Medication or birth control wise? Or has she gone to see a doctor?
Was your relationship highly sexual before you got married?
Can you get an annulment? You got married under false pretenses. Maybe she is a-sexual. Maybe she is cheating. Both things are never to be overcome.
I would be honest with her and tell her that if you can not expect physical intimacy with her then it’s best to move on
So is she seeing some one else and keeping her self chaste for them?