Recently my wife has made some comments about “struggling to keep up with me”, and wishes that “I’d let go so she didn’t feel like she has to keep up”.
My wife has always been in good shape and I have never pressured her to look a certain way. When I asked her to elaborate, she said she doesn’t really care to be in shape and only does it so she wouldn’t feel judged by others. She seemed resentful.
I wonder if any of you have similar experiences