My husband and I (both 40m/f) have been together for 22 years. It’s been a rocky marriage but the saving grace is our sex life. We have always been very attracted to each other, even when we had ugly fights the making up was great. A year or so ago my husband was telling a story about how our pharmacy use to suck but it’s ok now that there is a “gorgeous” new pharmacist that checks him out (hinting that he gets better service now because she must want him). I told him in not such a great way, that I was not cool with that. Skip to today, he was talking to a family member about how we needed to contact parents regarding something for our kid and he said he’s not calling this particular mom because she’s a “smoke show.” (This mom also happens to be single, bleach blond, fit and fake boobs, I love her she looks great, not knocking her.)So I get quiet the rest of the evening trying to keep my cool, end of night he keeps asking what’s wrong so I finally ask why he thinks that’s okay to say especially after the conversations we’ve had. Would this make you upset? What would you do? Am I just being insecure?