My fiancé (51M) (finance over 200k salary) has planned a trip to visit his family in England for our summer trip. Then we’re spending a week in South of France. He’s already made me pay for my flight and then said that we’ll only split hotel 60/40 (so it’s not fully 50/50). I’m a (41F) who is consulting while I look for work. I have savings and can definitely afford the trip but I cannot be more turned off. I don’t even know how to handle this situation. I men, the man did make me cover half the cost of my miscarriage surgery so I shouldn’t expect anything less. But I feel like I’m spiraling inside. How do you all handle this situation?