A couple weeks back I was at a food court/bar and went to buy a drink at the one of the stalls. I look up and I was met with the smile of this handsome man behind the bar. I thought to myself, this man is gorgeousssss. I flirted with him as he made my drink and my friend egged me on to try and get his number as she could see the flirtation between us.
We texted for a bit but he was inconsistent and disappeared for a bit. Despite that we flirted our way into a late night rendezvous. It was all very exciting and sexy. I came to know more about him, and his past… in short he has an illicit history and, as such, is not really someone I would see myself dating seriously. However it was fun to spend time with him. We were intimate but neither of us finished. It hit 4am and we wrapped up and it was home-time.
Despite that and despite the date being very much for causal purposes he was a gentleman, in many ways, including making sure I got home safe by paying for my uber and checking I got home okay. However I have not heard anything from him since, a week later.
Baring all this in mind, is it a good idea to text him to see if he’s free to meet up again and to see if he’s down for more fun? Or is his silence a clear sign he wouldn’t be up for it?