I’m looking for advice on those with long term relationships, my boyfriend and I have been together almost 2 ½ years and it’s been a good relationship, safe, doesn’t feel toxic. But I feel like something is missing like a spark or something, we do the same things each day and seem to have the same conversations (how was your day, what does tomorrow look like for you) and I’m starting to feel like maybe it isn’t the right relationship.
We’re comfortable together and get along with one another’s families, but I just don’t know if I feel that “in love” thirst with him. Maybe I am just not feeling as desirable and sought after, but also I feel like maybe it feels like he used to put more effort when we first started dating and now were together that feeling of being desired is more like complacent.
I wanted to ask those out there your thoughts on this. I don’t want to give up on a good, calm relationship over this if it’s nothing really. I just am starting to feel like we’re just roommates in the same space lately and he expresses that he loves me and says I’m beautiful and all but idk I just don’t feel like it has that much weight anymore.. :/ please give me your thoughts.