I'm a younger adult in my first relationship. I'm looking for a permanent life partner, and things aren't perfect ofc, but I don't expect it to be.
I am curious though: over the years, what have you learned about qualities in a partner that are reasonable to work on together, vs qualities that usually end up not being worth it (or just not changeable)?
Love is a doozy. It's hard to peak beyond that veil rationally, so I would really appreciate perspectives of anyone.