I’ve(21M) noticed how most progressive women I know—including my gf—abhor the idea of women having to fulfill traditional gender roles while finding men providing a conventional masculine role to be attractive. They still want men to ask out, move the relationship forward, be protective, and propose even if they don’t want to be traditionally feminine. I don’t want women to have gender roles forced upon them, and I’m against it when they do it to me. I wouldn’t call myself particularly feminine, but I’m also not that masculine