Why does this person keep saying they don’t want to talk to me, but then go out of their way to talk to me, bother me, or constantly be around me? Our relationship is really toxic, and whenever she says we shouldn’t talk to each other anymore, I actually respect that because honestly I don’t want anything to do with the relationship either. But after some time passes and we stop talking, she always comes back trying to reconnect or start conversations again. It’s like an endless cycle. The frustrating part is that it feels like the relationship can only end if she decides it ends. Whenever I say I want distance or don’t want anything to do with her, she acts like I’m trying to control her, ignores what I’m saying, and keeps forcing herself into my space and life anyway. If you truly don’t want anything to do with someone like you claim, then wouldn’t distancing yourselves from each other make sense?
Can someone genuinely explain this to me because I’m tired of this cycle.