I feel guilty even writing this post but I need advice or tips or honestly just any sort of guidance. I’ve been dating my boyfriend for two years now and for the last six months we’ve been doing long distance because he had to go home and help with some family issues. He’s been so busy that he hasn’t been able to go to the gym and he’s gained some weight. Now, I’m not repulsed by him or anything and I still love him very much but I’m honestly struggling feeling attracted to him. He was very athletic before and the difference felt like it came on kinda fast, if that makes sense? In every other aspect, he’s as close to perfect as a boyfriend can be, but I genuinely don’t know what to do. He’s been asking why I haven’t been so interested in anything sexual and I’m not even sure how to approach the conversation or if I even should. We plan on moving in together again in about three months and he’s been telling me about how excited he is to go back to the gym, and I’m just not sure how to get over this slump. Any advice would be appreciated.