This concept is just so crazy to me that it has repeatedly happened that men don’t have “enough” feelings for me… because I either have feelings or I don’t. I don’t think I’ve ever dated someone and thought “yeah I have feelings but not enough”. they are either there, or they aren’t…how does that work? I just don’t get it. to “kind of“ be falling in love but not enough to where you want to actually prioritize the connection? what??