Some people who ignore, ghost, or act inconsistently often seem very confident and focused on themselves. They don’t get emotionally shaken easily and tend to follow their own mood and priorities.
There is something you can learn from that, which is inner strength and being solid with yourself. Not being overly dependent on how others act toward you, and not letting it control your emotions.
At the same time, in real life you should stay respectful and clear. If someone treats you in a way that hurts you, you can calmly say it is not okay, or that you don’t want to talk right now. You don’t need to chase or argue, just set your limit and step back.
The best approach is balance. Take the good parts from others, like their confidence and self-control, and combine it with your own values like respect and kindness. This builds a strong personality: calm, grounded, respectful, but not dependent on anyone.
You stay solid with yourself, treat people well, and avoid those who don’t treat you right.
Dont focus on people reaction if you weren’t ghosting or hurting any 1.
I was told many time I take advantage of people even some thought I was making fun of them and I wasn’t during argument.
I myself need to learn not to care.