Are some people just incompatible with dating? I am not a very social person, and I don't have many hobbies or passions. I will admit that both of those traits are bad in a person who wants to date, but as I progress in my 27 years of living, I have grown more acceptance for that part of myself. The acceptance is that I will always just not enjoy socializing, and that I will have trouble connecting with people due to my limited activities, along with the lack of charisma for those activities. Those limited activities include playing video games, watching TV, and watching movies. I don't think many people would consider this lack of life variety very attractive, but its come to be what I enjoy and always turn to too brighten my day. Since most of my hobbies are solo, along with that fact that I don't really care enough to talk about them with other people, I ask myself, will I just always be incompatible with dating? Nothing outside the house besides work to meet other people. Nothing to keep the conversation going when I do occasionally talk to the odd person. I see advice online to expand your interests and go to various groups, but I find it difficult to find interests and maintain follow through when forcing myself to go an activity. I've kind of come to the conclusion that yes, it is extremely unlikely that I will find someone. I am hoping that maybe someone can offer some advice if they are a similar person to me, although I think it will come down to mostly just changing my personality to be less asocial, a very hard feat.