My girlfriend 22 F and I 24M have been in a relationship for about 8 years it was on and off in the first half, and have been living together in her parents house since the very beginning of 2020. In early spring of 2021 I had told her that I wanted to enlist and she had told me that if I did she would break up with me. Skip ahead 2 months and on her high-school graduation day she breaks up with me for her best friend 18M at the time who had just joined the navy. Skip ahead another 2 months and he breaks up with her for his ex and she comes back to me. For reasons that I don't even know I took her back. In 2023 I finally enlist with the national guard and while in my career school she calls every hour and doesn't want me to hangout with friends especially if they were female. When I finally got home and talked about it with her face to face she tried to guilt tripped me into thinking that I was the bad guy for not wanting to talk to her, and that made me not want to be with her anymore. When I went to her parents to try to confide in them and see if they could change my mind they told me that if I broke up with her I would be kicked out. Since then I have not been able to save up enough to afford a down payment anywhere and I haven't progressed in my career to afford moving out especially with the current housing market. I have felt trapped and stuck in a relationship that was once healthy but the situation I am in has made me not want to be in it any more and I don't know what to do.