It’s been nearly 1 month since we are in long distance relationship everything is fine. Until we had little heated argument where I asked him to do something and he couldn’t have because of him being busy and so I got mad because he didn’t even update me if that job can be done or not.
Well, he apologised for that but then he felt embarrassed and then started to make scene that saying words like I AM NOT GOOD ENOUGH FOR YOU, I CANT MAKE YOU HAPPY, I AM EMBARRASSED.
He shared about this past traumatic events as well which relates to his parents separation I guess!!
After a day I heard nothing back from him so I was worried and started making various calls, he called me back later and said that this is too much I can’t take this at this moment.
Then I chased him again for clarification regarding his behaviour and what exactly triggered him but then he said he is at the hospital with one of his relatives and he showed me picture as well that he is. Next day no communication same thing that he still at the hospital.
I broke down and got mad and lost at there.
He then sent this message to me.
Please try to understand I'm begging you I'm promising you I love you zara and you're my home and the way you're caring it's too much and when I'm not returning I'm fucked up and mentally exhausted
Sooo I can't do this anymore at the moment tooo much
Please when I'm not returning back so | am
hurting myself and you because I care about you and love you unconditionally, please I'm embarrassing and can't write anything I swear I'm saving life here and mentally exhausted and my love home wife is not okay tooo
Please I'm begging you some space at the moment but I promise I'II marry you
I need just space and alone
That's allll
TL;DR: He is emotionally overwhelmed after the minor inconvenience and asked for personal space with no timeline and I don’t know how long should I wait for him to?