I've seen this talked about a lot lately. Some ppl think it's normal and are happy that their spouses are open about it with them. I've (50/f) been with my husband (54/m) for over 30 years (we have 2 kids) and I think my feelings would be so hurt and I'd feel extremely threatened if my husband told me he had a crush on someone.
Obviously this applies to ppl we know, it wouldn't bother me at all if it's a celebrity or someone he'd never meet.
I'd find myself questioning what is wrong with me or what am I missing that is causing him to have feelings for/think about another woman. What do we all think about this??