Me and my husband have been married for over 2 years now, dated 4 years before that.
Ever since we got married he kinda stopped working on himself, he stopped working out and became lazy. I really love him and it was never about the looks, I always compliment him and show him that I love him.
He gained weight, grew his hair and beard, stopped taking showers like he did… He feels really insecure and his laziness doesn’t allow him to fix this. Instead, he started putting me down. Comparing me to models, following other girls, liking thirst traps… At first it didn’t bother me much because I knew that he was insecure. I tried motivating him, cooking healthier meals but nothing worked.
Now, things have escalated and he started adding girls on snapchat, making secret accounts, always ignoring me and barely spending any time with me. He doesn’t want to listen to me when I’m trying to have conversation about what is bothering me. He genuinely laughs at me.
He became a man who would rather satisfy himself than have intimacy with me. And now I just don’t know what to do since he was never like this