I'll try to keep this as concise yet informative as possible. So I matched with this girl like a month ago and we hit it off almost immediately. We planned a date and I would like to say that went pretty well for both of us. There was definite chemistry, we both enjoyed banter, and we even lightly discussed more serious topics in a way that felt very natural and organic. The more serious topics(again lightly discussed) were things like type of dynamic we seek in a relationship, communication styles, views on children, etc. and we seemed to be aligned on all of that. She has mentioned a couple of times that she is inconsistent with texting and she made it known to me early on, which I appreciated. Whenever she does respond back to me its a full-fledged response, providing me with details about her day and she even asks about how things are going with me and I do my best to reciprocate. She has provided legit reasons for why she isnt responsive and I am understanding of that. Don't worry, they aren't red flags. She's just at a very high level at work and involved with meetings or work dinners that go way past when she'd be done with work. We've only been on one date so maybe I need a reality check lmao. She has expressed interest in a second date and I am trying to coordinate that but it's difficult when she is unable to get back to me and I am not trying to be that person that sends out a "How's your day going?" text as a reminder for conversation.
I am sure there will be people who will say to just drop this, which is valid. Is there anyone here that has been in a similar situation? What were the reasons for you that you kept it going? How did that end up?