hi there! to explain my question further, im trying to ask what is the regular amount you can dislike/be annoyed with/doubt someone, before making the decision to remove them from your life? you might say "um, none?" but NO, thats not true! sometimes people are annoyed with or upset with their friends, or they dont like the choices their friends make, and thats normal right? so how much of that feeling are you allowed to have, before you should stop being friends with them? whats the regular amount of annoyance/dislike/doubt that you can have for a friend?
this question might not make sense to a lot of people, but recently ive realized that ive spent pretty much my whole life in company that i honestly dont really enjoy. but im confused on how to proceed, on how to make the right friends. i think my whole life ive just ignored bad feelings or thoughts ive had about friends, unless its super bad, because i just thought thats how it works. because like, no one you meet is ever going to be perfect, youre never going to like every single thing about them or be happy with them constantly, thats unrealistic and unreasonable. but having this mindset is making me unhappy so clearly im doing something wrong
like i said, youre never going to find someone that you like 100% of their traits and behavior and actions, right? so what percentage should it be then? what percentage should you like someones personality to have a happy friendship? how many times can you get annoyed with/frustrated with/put off by someone before ending the friendship?? whats normal??
advice totally appreciated !!! please help a guy out. also maybe i should post this in r/autism