I (29F) matched with a 24M on Hinge and we’ve had two dates so far. Both went insanely well. We got intimate on the first date and the chemistry was honestly unreal, but the second date was somehow even better. He actually gave me an orgasm with his fingers, which has literally never happened to me before.
Now here’s the thing: I feel like I’m completely losing my mind over this guy already and it’s embarrassing because this is SO unlike me. I’m usually the rational, emotionally grounded one. But during the second date, while we were being intimate, I genuinely had to stop myself from saying “I love you” ??? After TWO dates. Like what is happening to me.
We were supposed to have a third date on Thursday, but he texted asking if we could move it to Friday. Then Thursday night he said something came up on Friday too and asked if we could do Saturday instead (so today).
And now my brain is spiraling. Part of me is wondering if he’s testing whether I’ll get annoyed by the rescheduling so he has an excuse to stop talking to me, or if he’s losing interest and slowly pulling away. Another part of me knows that rescheduling twice in a row can genuinely happen and maybe I’m massively overthinking because I’m already way too emotionally invested.
Am I overthinking this? Is it normal to get this infatuated this quickly with someone you have insane chemistry with? Or am I genuinely going crazy over a 24-year-old guy 😭