So I drove an hour to Gainesville, and I couldn't talk to anyone beyond much small talk.
Went to a sports bar and found it to be to loud. And I felt shy.
This is the part where I get stuck dozens of times if not 100s. Go out to places but then get stuck at the cold approach phase.
It is easier to start conversations in much quieter places but there is only church which is full of old people. Perhaps there are churches full of younger people that would be a help.
Edit: I have to feel like I belong there. So my idea is to sign up for an art class or something. It eases the anxiety when you feel like you belong. The exposure therapy isnt working, after so many times.