i‘ve been in a relationship for 10 months and my bf is a reaaaal munch, he just loves it and he gives me these shaking orgasms. even when we’re not having sex and masturbating together and he kisses me while i rub my clit i get a more intense orgasm. the problem is when i’m alone i just cant cum the same way and i’ve just told him that and now i feel embarrassed because i don’t want to seem to clingy or dependent on him. men, would you consider this a compliment? would it boost your ego?


21 comments

  1. 100% a compliment. He’d probably be willing to do it more often too

  2. Definitely a compliment. I would be ecstatic, if I got to eat my girlfriend out more.

  3. I want this problem. I also want a bf that I’m so obsessed with that I can’t cum without him 🥲

  4. Enjoy it. You’re living a lot of people’s dreams. I’m sure he was thrilled to hear it. You have absolutely nothing to worry about. 🙂

  5. It’s a compliment for sure. I masturbate and can orgasm but totally relate to it being soooo much better with my husband. Feels good either way but he literally makes me want to cry with joy if not flat out scream when he does it to me!

  6. first world problems here and yes obviously he will see it as a compliment

  7. No. Because if I ever hit a spell where my mental health was down and I wasn’t into sex because of it, your self esteem would freefall and it would be my job to co-regulate you.

  8. That’s literally the cutest thing ever, if my partner told me that I’d be over the moon.

    It’s not embarrassing or clingy at all

  9. You have a really special connection with him, it is healthy and in many ways ideal. He won’t mind at all, and will likely take it as a compliment or ego-boost.

  10. Bruh men get so little in the compliment department. That would send my head into the stratosphere 😂

    Side note: have you tried the roses that stimulate having your clit licked? Might help while he’s gone

  11. I’m a guy and I’m the same. My partner had to go through some health issues that mimic menopause in her mid 20s. She wasn’t interested in sex for about 12 months but she’d put her arm around me and kiss my neck while she read a book and I masturbated. And honestly it was good enough to get be through while she sorted things out. Way better than masturbating alone or with porn.

    A good partner just being close and happy to see you happy makes everything better.

  12. That’s the ultimate ego boost and a lovely thing to express to somebody!

  13. My fiancé likes it lol. I have the worst orgasms without him now. I used to love masturbating and now I just can’t. He makes me scream every day 😅

  14. I have this same struggle. Her beat the og beater he just does it so much better

  15. I feel like j go through this phase when I get a new man who knows how to realllyyyy please me…

    When I started with my current partner there was a good 4-5 months where I couldn’t get off by myself. That’s since passed. So there’s always a chance that it passes for you as yall continue.

    But I’ve never met a guy who doesn’t like being told that. When I told my partner he said ‘come on over baby I’ll help you out’ 🤣

  17. My wife is the same way. She was never a big masturbateur but since we got together like 20 years ago, she’s probably done it on her own a handful of times, at least that I know of.

    As she’s said it’s just not the same on her own unless I’m there helping out in some way.

  20. I can, but my orgasms on my own are more of a quick ‘rub one out before sleep’ thing (yes I am a woman). Leg shaking multi-orgasm galore is what my partner brings. Only downside is we live an hour apart….

  21. Girl if you ask him, he’d probably take you to pound town daily.

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