Is he (23M) into me (22F) or am I just doubting myself?
So I have started this new job in November but with all the theoretical parts I only got to the actual place where we work in January, I met everyone and I had no interest in anyone, I just entered, did my job and left.
Until one colleague of mine (not direct but in a different department but we share the same areas and rooms) started being nice and he would get on forklifts to take out cargo for me to accept it without me asking, I thought it was strange because no man is going out of his way do to such work, to give you a pen or a paper? fine, but actually taking stuff out just for you? I don't think it's common but it can be just me overthinking it!
After that, he would come up to me and start asking about how we did stuff in our department, I explained to him but just normally cuz I didn't think much about it… then the stares started happening, I would be accepting cargo and he would be looking at me and when I looked at him he would stare away, we would talk and he stares into me in my eyes even with people around, I started noticing all of this and I started wondering and since he is nice towards me and really funny I started having a little crush on him, he would tease me for example by flipping a paper on my desk that wasn't important while I was concentrated, he would ask me to go with him to grab lunch with other colleagues of ours, he would see me struggling with a part shipment we had in our department and he would tell me that it was a part shipment and it was for exportation, he got his hands dirty and then I extended my hand to thank him but since he had them dirty he gave me his arm to shake… all this little things made me start crushing on him and now I'm scared of me being creepy and doing the wrong stuff since there were 2 days that I mentioned him to the closest co workers to him at least 3 times… I felt creepy and stopped since then I haven't mentioned, I only talk about him when people talk about him and it's stuff he has done for example, never about how I feel about him, no one knows. after all of this 3 weeks ago I had a guy who asked me to put a song i liked and I put black by pearl jam, him and his friend nodded at me approving of the song and told me I had nice taste and after the song ended he grabbed the pc right away and put sweet candy by ac/DC and Barracuda by heart… on the same day he came up to me and asked if I wanted to go out for dinner with him and 3 other colleagues but he stuttered and I thought it was cute, on the drive there he looked to me by the rearview mirror 3 times…
what do y'all think? should I make a move or something since he has done a lot but since I have no game and I'm pretty shy it can look like I'm not interested… or am I just being creepy and seeing stuff that doesn't exist?
P.S – his dad works with us and there was a week that he was working with me and he came up to me and started talking some stuff about his personal life and his son's personal life, which I thought was cute of him to trust me enough to tell some stuff he did and he was really nice towards me ( I don't know if he knows his son likes me or was just being nice ).
sorry for the big text I'm just kinda panicking if I'm being creepy and I don't want to be creepy especially at work where I try to be the most discreet I can be!
P.S n 2: English isn't my first language so I'm sorry if it seems very confusing
TL:DR – Am I being creepy or he likes me?