Throw away for privacy reasons, but I (21M) is having trouble sexually with my partner (22M) because hes a switch and he really wants me to top. I have a desire to top too but I really dont know how to get the confidence out of me and when I ask around my friends tell me to "just do it" and I really struggle to figure this out
I know what he wants but I feel mean and internally freak out everytime I try but he enjoys this
As an fyi i always bottomed for my previous partners so topping is not my specialty but I really want to???? help??