Im 21 male and i have no friends or social life
Im starting a new job i feel like im gonna fuck it up just by being an idiot
I didn’t have lots of friends growing up i had many 1 or 2 every other year we either stop hanging out or get into so kind of fight that was stupid ash or they want something from me like weed or phones just using me i just wanna do shit more with people these last couple years since i turned 18 i feel like every year i just keep getting less friends
Im not very social at all I usually have no problem making friends i haven’t seen anyone in my town my age in a while if i do their usually already in a big group
I just wanna do more like drink beer and ski or just hang out or go to a bar im prolly gonna get hated on but whatever its just annoying every job i work its filled with middle aged dudes or very old people that have nothing in common anyone else have this problem?
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Let’s be friend, mate! what is your name and where are you from?
Just never give up, and if what your doing isn’t working change your approach.
Worst case scenario you’ll be a bit better at socializing in a few years time.
Best case scenario you are content, happy and greatful for the people around you.
In my opinion, it’s easier to keep friends/make friends with things you share in common. I know saying “get out there” is cliche, but seriously. You don’t need friends to start having fun. I decided to focus on hobbies as a way of self improvement, but also to just be more interesting overall. For example, going for group hikes, hanging out at game stores, talking to people at the fishing pier, joining clubs at college.
Last thing—always quality over quantity. One good friend is worth 20 shit friends.