Idk if anyone else has experienced this but lately I’ve been pretty done with dating I’m off the apps but still get the odd “oh you’re so gorgeous how are you not wifed up” message and every time i just say with all do respect I’m not interested, these types of people either react really overly like “oh whatever you’re an ugly fat b*tch anyways” after tons of messages of “😍” on every photo or just overly kissing your ass in convo, like they think saying you’re beautiful every other message makes you more interested or something? if they don’t get the response they want it just turns into more begging? “Oh but you deserve a nice guy like me” and despite me being open that I’m not into random hookups and not really interested in finding anything these people never take no for an answer until you end up blocking them. What is the science behind people just insisting? Why can’t people take no and why do they take it personally and act like there’s something wrong with you?? “I’m such an awesome guy” then why are you single? Lol it just all seems so fake and manipulative. For context I’d consider myself conventionally attractive but nothing to obsess over so idk if I’m just catching desperation or what?


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