What’s the most messed up thing someone has confessed to you in confidence?
May 10, 2026
What’s the most messed up thing someone has confessed to you in confidence?
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My best friend told me that he was cheating on his wife of 18 years.
that she drank blood
super kind chick too, believe it or not
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“If you ever break up with me I’ll probably have to go to the hospital.”
For some reason that didn’t trigger massive alarm bells. Younger me was very stupid.
X-Box friend said they went to jail for stalking and conspiring to beat up an ex and their new bf 🥴
A different (former) friend said she spread a false rumor about a high school rival of hers having HIV on social media
Close friend who was molested by their parent said they thoroughly enjoyed and even encouraged it. Even went as far as to think of ways to “reignite the passion” when it stopped for a time. They went on to say that if they ever have kids, they hope their kids are into the same thing so they can “be there for them” in the same way.
Twenty-two years ago, when I was a new teacher, an older teacher, the only other male on the faculty, said to me once that it didn’t matter that one of our female students was, in his words, “dumb as a brick,” because she “had a nice rack” and would “find a guy to take care of her.”
She was 14 and in eighth grade.
I’m so lonely, all the other viltrumites are scared of me
“I don’t want to be with you but the day I see your wedding pictures I will hurt myself”
I gave a guy a ride home from a parenting class I was taking during my divorce. (Love and Logic. Awesome class. Any parent could benefit from it.)
He told me his reason for taking the class was that “while under the influence of marijuana” he molested his 18 month old child.
I actually did the mental math about the hearing damage from touching off a .357 mag round in my 2004 Wrangler. I ended up going to the main office of the organization holding the class and letting them know. He never came back to the class.
One of my old friends was talking to two guys at once.. they were best friends.. under two different names.
All of this became unraveled however once she saw them both together and they recognised her, as she’d stupidly forgot to use different pictures 🙂
I had a casual fling tell me she wanted to do a dom/sub relationship “…and that I could use her for other men’s pleasure and take money from them”. So, like, she wanted to be my girlfriend and have me pimp her out, that it would turn her on. She also wanted to get married and have my children lol
A friend of mine (female) told me she would go to the bar and get guys to buy her drinks and food then go home with them and fuck. She would either stay the night or call them in the morning and get them to give her money for plan b but she has an iud. She would do that a few times a month. every time she would walk away with a free night out, getting laid, and around $100.
When I was in college, a male friend confessed he didn’t really like sex but did it because it was expected and he was afraid no one would ever marry him if they knew. This really bothered me because I’m gay and never dated women, even when I wasn’t out, because it just seemed wrong to have someone fall in love with you under false pretenses. We lost touch over the years but I learned his first two marriages ended in divorce and I can guess why, though he did manage to have a kid.
he killed a cat when he was a child
An old friend told me about the numerous times he slept with his wife’s sister. They keep the secret, all while hanging out together regularly.
The deceit and break of trust there was repulsive to me. I don’t understand how they could do that to someone they’re close to. A sister. The mother of his kids.
So gross.
My ex BIL was a long time meth user, probably still is but I dont keep track of ex family. We were drinking once, he’d been clean like 4 months at the time and apropos of nothing he just pipes up with
“I gotta tell someone and you dont talk to anyone, when I was in Michigan, I tried ripping off my dealer I was in my car, I tried to drive off. He held onto the car. I dragged him for a bit and when he fell off I reversed over him and then drove off. I’m not sure if I killed him or not and I’m scared I’ll go to hell for it.”
I just said damn and went inside. I wasn’t ready for all that
A guy confessed to me that he made my previous friend get an abortion because he “wasn’t ready”. They were both 19-20 at the time and he told me this when we were 29/28. Same guy proceeded to literally gaslight his then gf into staying with him when he told me he didn’t want to “be a dad to her two kids” and only wanted a family of his own. I warned his gf of what he said and she stayed with him for a few months until she broke up with him because he was cheating on her. I only found out because she contacted me to apologize (I blocked him after that night he told me all this shit).
Had a gf (divorced mother of 2) allude to her beliefs in showing her kids her nude body as a natural healthy thing to show and talk about with them. Ok i get that angle if handled properly but her adding more details later crossed a line (seriously I’ll leave them out) I couldn’t accept. I split soon after. Later learned she’d been battling mental illness and it got much worse in the years that followed. I learned family intervened and took the kids.
That he went to jail because he committed arson with the intent to murder a bunch of people.
It was literally a guy on the street who started talking to me randomly.
this one girl i knew said while making fun of the situation that she plays with mens emotions intentionally especially who obviously like her and doesnt mind getting the gifts and the dates and meals and love she gets from them just by giving them a bit of attention as they do like her. i feel bad for these men ik she didnt ask them to do so and theyre kinda silly but shes basically tricking them by giving signs she likes them back but she doesnt actually like them one bit. and her opinion is well men do this all the time its time we do it back they deserve it. also she broke up with her long-term “perfect” ex on his birthday ik everyone has a right to leave when they want but she kept saying he was literally a perfect man in every way but she just lost feelings and felt bored of him.. i feel like she expected me to hype her up but i kept telling her thats fucked up girl whyy 😭 but it was obvious she doesnt care and said she realized she doesn’t have emotions of romantic love and intimacy to anyone.
oh i just noticed its the ask men sub after writing all this.. imma still share it tho
Guy at one of my last jobs felt so desperate and lonely he told me he planned on knocking up the next girl he hooks up with so he could trap her into a family.
One of my long time gaming buddies dropped that he had stage 3 cancer in the group chat and left to be with his family. Never saw an obituary so I really hope he beat the odds.
Family I worked for mom confessed she hated the children “ they can feel I don’t like them” she was a raging alcoholic
The first was that he was a male sex worker. Used the earnings to bridge the gap when bills pfiled up. He was ‘disabled’ so he didn’t clock in anywhere but still received government checks. Spouse worked a decent paying job doing 90s office work at a giant company still around today. He would be done for 3 or 4 days at a time maybe 2X a month. Always had $5k+ in his pockets.
The second, was that he had killed a man in his 20s.
He was traveling for a job in the 80s. Met a fellow and became instant friends. Where driving across a very long well known bridge in a southern state. Stopped on a random journey to enjoy the view when the newcomer said something along the lines of jokingly throwing the other off the side and taking his car. A short tuffle ensued and 1 of them did in fact go over the side.
After his passing at nearly 50, I found the newspaper article of the man who went over the side of the bridge. His death was ruled a suicide. The article read that he was a traveling man with no home or known family that was most likely down on his luck.
Bro told me in confidence. As if I would tell you.
She “de-virginized” 19 of her “friends”
My best friend Jimmy told me he runs a bot farm whose sole purpose is to spoil movie endings online.
So I punched a hole in his torso and pulled out his intestines and then strangled him with them in the town square right above John’s saloon.
That he was raped in jail.
Some guy I was barely friends with from work told me over IG he was in a gay relationship with his brother. And said guy had a wife and was expecting a child.
My sister said to me one day in casual conversation that i ruined her childhood
They Sexually Assaulted someone
I was my in my best friends wedding party. 12 years into their marriage I got drunk with him and his wife. He went home and asked me to keep and eye on her.
She grabbed my dick and tried to fuck me. I told my friend and it’s been 3 years since we have spoken.
I was also guilty because I allowed it. I didn’t stop her.
Readin alll these i realized everyone in my life is fucking tame as shit. Wow.
Worst thing that i know of is one of my uncles had photos and tapes of my underage cousins in the bathroom and shower. Said it was “an attempt to catch his wife cheating”
So like put the cameras in the hallway to the entrances of house. Not in the fucking bathroom where your kids bathe you sicko.
They were in a hidden folder on his computer that said wife randomly came across trying to find paperwork to send to him. An she clicked the wrong folder which led down a trail of folders. Like we did in highschool to hide games on our flash drives.
I lost a cool aunt who was actual down to earth and not a fucking drunk like the rest of that side of the family, all 3 of my cousins from their section of the family. They all moved and wanted nothing to do with the family. They were like the only part of my dads side i liked. an then we lost that entire side of the family cause they defended him and bailed him out of jail. Like…. even if he didnt intend for that why wouldnt he have deleted it from his computer.
So we dont talk to my dad or his entire side of the family anymore.
An that doesnt feel like it compares to come of yalls stuff. Like… damn
“this is what happens when men leave me”
*Pulls up wrist coverings I was suspicious about all day to reveal an inch and a half of scars*
And I don’t mean a inch and a half long scar. I mean so many 2-4 inch scars, over the course of years, that the individual, one mm lines covered an inch and a half of her wrist.
After having been homeless from 12-17, I’m incapable of not helping women that seem in distress. And that lead to a 3 year nightmare relationship.
Holy shit was the sex good though. And she was a solid Oregon 10 (so an 8.5).
When I was 17, I got a DUI.
I had to take an overnight “alcohol education” course at a hotel over a weekend.
It was a small group of about 10 other people who got DUIs, many of them in their 30s-50s.
My roommate was a man in his 50s, had a bit of a southern twang and a thick mustache. He basically looked like a less handsome version of Matthew McConaughey in Dallas Buyer’s Club.
Well, after our first round of classes, we were in the hotel room preparing for bed.
Separate beds, of course lol But we were just having a chat.
This dude tells me that one time he was driving through the roughest part of the city. Some thug runs up to the side of his car at a red light with a gun trying to rob him. He puts his hands up, acting shocked like “Ok, ok, just let me get my wallet!”
Then he pulls out a gun from his righthand side, shoots the guy dead, and drives off.
I’m like what the fuck lol
I had trouble sleeping that night.
I once worked at a private school near a large city. They were always looking for big donors (or course). We used to have high school students who needed volunteer hours give tours sometimes, with a school staff member.
I was friends with the staff member who accompanied the student giving the tour and she told me that she and the student had gone to greet the potential donor as he got out of his car. He was in his early 70s. She said he informed both of them that he used his own shit to fertilize his lawn before they made it from the parking lot into the building. He also told the student she “looked cute” in her uniform and asked, “Did you dress up in that today just for me?”
After hearing about this, the principal dismissed him as “eccentric” and just said to not let him interact with the students anymore.
Oh, y’kno, just some casual gang rape.
I was taking phone calls in a call center. A guy told me it was very sad around the holidays because his best friend killed himself around that time of year. Then his wife killed herself by driving off a cliff. They both left behind 2 kids.
I don’t even know this fucking guy, I’m just working a job.
in 2005/2006 I worked on-site IT support. We had a lot of private customers.
One janitor (of course at a school), single father of a daughter, wanted a tool to automatically erase every search-history, tempfile, etc… So his daughter would not find any strange words or contents, as they shared one single pc and he didn’t want multiple users, so he himself could “make sure she can’t search porn”.
Tool was easy, but his search history was disturbing. He told me about his “preferences”… I made a few “security backups” do document it and gave the information to my supervisor. Confession in confidence? Not for those guys.
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My ex wife confessed she killed her pet hamster bc it wouldn’t stop squeaking
That he fell out of his boat, and it took off without him, his phone was in the boat, he had nothing and he waded overnight in the alligator infested lake, floating on his back hearing the gators chirp, and I thought… that’s the story he tells people, I wonder what really happened that he came home wet, naked and wired from not sleeping all night.
I’m telling the story exactly as it happened. I’m not exaggerating. A woman I once had occasional flings with was extremely sexually open-minded. When I asked whether her sister was similarly kinked, she told me they’d had threesomes together with her sister’s husband, all three were swingers. That aroused me, but what followed went disturbing fast. She said she had allowed a German Shepherd to have sex with her from behind. At first I assumed she was joking or deliberately tryin to shock me, but her manner convinced me she was telling the truth. I consider myself open-minded, but that revelation changed how I felt about her and I stopped spending time with her. The threesome with her sister was something I found wildly attractive, but the story about the dog was repulsive.
Guy I was dating for a few months. Confessed he was attracted to pre-pubescent girls, had accessed and used child pornography, and was not opposed to having a “relationship” with someone underage. It was a very traumatic and confusing time for me. I ended things and notified the police.
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My best friend told me that he was cheating on his wife of 18 years.
that she drank blood
super kind chick too, believe it or not
[deleted]
“If you ever break up with me I’ll probably have to go to the hospital.”
For some reason that didn’t trigger massive alarm bells. Younger me was very stupid.
X-Box friend said they went to jail for stalking and conspiring to beat up an ex and their new bf 🥴
A different (former) friend said she spread a false rumor about a high school rival of hers having HIV on social media
Close friend who was molested by their parent said they thoroughly enjoyed and even encouraged it. Even went as far as to think of ways to “reignite the passion” when it stopped for a time. They went on to say that if they ever have kids, they hope their kids are into the same thing so they can “be there for them” in the same way.
Twenty-two years ago, when I was a new teacher, an older teacher, the only other male on the faculty, said to me once that it didn’t matter that one of our female students was, in his words, “dumb as a brick,” because she “had a nice rack” and would “find a guy to take care of her.”
She was 14 and in eighth grade.
I’m so lonely, all the other viltrumites are scared of me
“I don’t want to be with you but the day I see your wedding pictures I will hurt myself”
I gave a guy a ride home from a parenting class I was taking during my divorce. (Love and Logic. Awesome class. Any parent could benefit from it.)
He told me his reason for taking the class was that “while under the influence of marijuana” he molested his 18 month old child.
I actually did the mental math about the hearing damage from touching off a .357 mag round in my 2004 Wrangler. I ended up going to the main office of the organization holding the class and letting them know. He never came back to the class.
One of my old friends was talking to two guys at once.. they were best friends.. under two different names.
All of this became unraveled however once she saw them both together and they recognised her, as she’d stupidly forgot to use different pictures 🙂
I had a casual fling tell me she wanted to do a dom/sub relationship “…and that I could use her for other men’s pleasure and take money from them”. So, like, she wanted to be my girlfriend and have me pimp her out, that it would turn her on. She also wanted to get married and have my children lol
A friend of mine (female) told me she would go to the bar and get guys to buy her drinks and food then go home with them and fuck. She would either stay the night or call them in the morning and get them to give her money for plan b but she has an iud. She would do that a few times a month. every time she would walk away with a free night out, getting laid, and around $100.
When I was in college, a male friend confessed he didn’t really like sex but did it because it was expected and he was afraid no one would ever marry him if they knew. This really bothered me because I’m gay and never dated women, even when I wasn’t out, because it just seemed wrong to have someone fall in love with you under false pretenses. We lost touch over the years but I learned his first two marriages ended in divorce and I can guess why, though he did manage to have a kid.
he killed a cat when he was a child
An old friend told me about the numerous times he slept with his wife’s sister. They keep the secret, all while hanging out together regularly.
The deceit and break of trust there was repulsive to me. I don’t understand how they could do that to someone they’re close to. A sister. The mother of his kids.
So gross.
My ex BIL was a long time meth user, probably still is but I dont keep track of ex family. We were drinking once, he’d been clean like 4 months at the time and apropos of nothing he just pipes up with
“I gotta tell someone and you dont talk to anyone, when I was in Michigan, I tried ripping off my dealer I was in my car, I tried to drive off. He held onto the car. I dragged him for a bit and when he fell off I reversed over him and then drove off. I’m not sure if I killed him or not and I’m scared I’ll go to hell for it.”
I just said damn and went inside. I wasn’t ready for all that
A guy confessed to me that he made my previous friend get an abortion because he “wasn’t ready”. They were both 19-20 at the time and he told me this when we were 29/28. Same guy proceeded to literally gaslight his then gf into staying with him when he told me he didn’t want to “be a dad to her two kids” and only wanted a family of his own. I warned his gf of what he said and she stayed with him for a few months until she broke up with him because he was cheating on her. I only found out because she contacted me to apologize (I blocked him after that night he told me all this shit).
Had a gf (divorced mother of 2) allude to her beliefs in showing her kids her nude body as a natural healthy thing to show and talk about with them. Ok i get that angle if handled properly but her adding more details later crossed a line (seriously I’ll leave them out) I couldn’t accept. I split soon after. Later learned she’d been battling mental illness and it got much worse in the years that followed. I learned family intervened and took the kids.
That he went to jail because he committed arson with the intent to murder a bunch of people.
It was literally a guy on the street who started talking to me randomly.
this one girl i knew said while making fun of the situation that she plays with mens emotions intentionally especially who obviously like her and doesnt mind getting the gifts and the dates and meals and love she gets from them just by giving them a bit of attention as they do like her. i feel bad for these men ik she didnt ask them to do so and theyre kinda silly but shes basically tricking them by giving signs she likes them back but she doesnt actually like them one bit. and her opinion is well men do this all the time its time we do it back they deserve it. also she broke up with her long-term “perfect” ex on his birthday ik everyone has a right to leave when they want but she kept saying he was literally a perfect man in every way but she just lost feelings and felt bored of him.. i feel like she expected me to hype her up but i kept telling her thats fucked up girl whyy 😭 but it was obvious she doesnt care and said she realized she doesn’t have emotions of romantic love and intimacy to anyone.
oh i just noticed its the ask men sub after writing all this.. imma still share it tho
Guy at one of my last jobs felt so desperate and lonely he told me he planned on knocking up the next girl he hooks up with so he could trap her into a family.
One of my long time gaming buddies dropped that he had stage 3 cancer in the group chat and left to be with his family. Never saw an obituary so I really hope he beat the odds.
Family I worked for mom confessed she hated the children “ they can feel I don’t like them” she was a raging alcoholic
The first was that he was a male sex worker. Used the earnings to bridge the gap when bills pfiled up. He was ‘disabled’ so he didn’t clock in anywhere but still received government checks. Spouse worked a decent paying job doing 90s office work at a giant company still around today. He would be done for 3 or 4 days at a time maybe 2X a month. Always had $5k+ in his pockets.
The second, was that he had killed a man in his 20s.
He was traveling for a job in the 80s. Met a fellow and became instant friends. Where driving across a very long well known bridge in a southern state. Stopped on a random journey to enjoy the view when the newcomer said something along the lines of jokingly throwing the other off the side and taking his car. A short tuffle ensued and 1 of them did in fact go over the side.
After his passing at nearly 50, I found the newspaper article of the man who went over the side of the bridge. His death was ruled a suicide. The article read that he was a traveling man with no home or known family that was most likely down on his luck.
Bro told me in confidence. As if I would tell you.
She “de-virginized” 19 of her “friends”
My best friend Jimmy told me he runs a bot farm whose sole purpose is to spoil movie endings online.
So I punched a hole in his torso and pulled out his intestines and then strangled him with them in the town square right above John’s saloon.
That he was raped in jail.
Some guy I was barely friends with from work told me over IG he was in a gay relationship with his brother. And said guy had a wife and was expecting a child.
My sister said to me one day in casual conversation that i ruined her childhood
They Sexually Assaulted someone
I was my in my best friends wedding party. 12 years into their marriage I got drunk with him and his wife. He went home and asked me to keep and eye on her.
She grabbed my dick and tried to fuck me. I told my friend and it’s been 3 years since we have spoken.
I was also guilty because I allowed it. I didn’t stop her.
Readin alll these i realized everyone in my life is fucking tame as shit. Wow.
Worst thing that i know of is one of my uncles had photos and tapes of my underage cousins in the bathroom and shower. Said it was “an attempt to catch his wife cheating”
So like put the cameras in the hallway to the entrances of house. Not in the fucking bathroom where your kids bathe you sicko.
They were in a hidden folder on his computer that said wife randomly came across trying to find paperwork to send to him. An she clicked the wrong folder which led down a trail of folders. Like we did in highschool to hide games on our flash drives.
I lost a cool aunt who was actual down to earth and not a fucking drunk like the rest of that side of the family, all 3 of my cousins from their section of the family. They all moved and wanted nothing to do with the family. They were like the only part of my dads side i liked. an then we lost that entire side of the family cause they defended him and bailed him out of jail. Like…. even if he didnt intend for that why wouldnt he have deleted it from his computer.
So we dont talk to my dad or his entire side of the family anymore.
An that doesnt feel like it compares to come of yalls stuff. Like… damn
“this is what happens when men leave me”
*Pulls up wrist coverings I was suspicious about all day to reveal an inch and a half of scars*
And I don’t mean a inch and a half long scar. I mean so many 2-4 inch scars, over the course of years, that the individual, one mm lines covered an inch and a half of her wrist.
After having been homeless from 12-17, I’m incapable of not helping women that seem in distress. And that lead to a 3 year nightmare relationship.
Holy shit was the sex good though. And she was a solid Oregon 10 (so an 8.5).
When I was 17, I got a DUI.
I had to take an overnight “alcohol education” course at a hotel over a weekend.
It was a small group of about 10 other people who got DUIs, many of them in their 30s-50s.
My roommate was a man in his 50s, had a bit of a southern twang and a thick mustache. He basically looked like a less handsome version of Matthew McConaughey in Dallas Buyer’s Club.
Well, after our first round of classes, we were in the hotel room preparing for bed.
Separate beds, of course lol But we were just having a chat.
This dude tells me that one time he was driving through the roughest part of the city. Some thug runs up to the side of his car at a red light with a gun trying to rob him. He puts his hands up, acting shocked like “Ok, ok, just let me get my wallet!”
Then he pulls out a gun from his righthand side, shoots the guy dead, and drives off.
I’m like what the fuck lol
I had trouble sleeping that night.
I once worked at a private school near a large city. They were always looking for big donors (or course). We used to have high school students who needed volunteer hours give tours sometimes, with a school staff member.
I was friends with the staff member who accompanied the student giving the tour and she told me that she and the student had gone to greet the potential donor as he got out of his car. He was in his early 70s. She said he informed both of them that he used his own shit to fertilize his lawn before they made it from the parking lot into the building. He also told the student she “looked cute” in her uniform and asked, “Did you dress up in that today just for me?”
After hearing about this, the principal dismissed him as “eccentric” and just said to not let him interact with the students anymore.
Oh, y’kno, just some casual gang rape.
I was taking phone calls in a call center. A guy told me it was very sad around the holidays because his best friend killed himself around that time of year. Then his wife killed herself by driving off a cliff. They both left behind 2 kids.
I don’t even know this fucking guy, I’m just working a job.
in 2005/2006 I worked on-site IT support. We had a lot of private customers.
One janitor (of course at a school), single father of a daughter, wanted a tool to automatically erase every search-history, tempfile, etc… So his daughter would not find any strange words or contents, as they shared one single pc and he didn’t want multiple users, so he himself could “make sure she can’t search porn”.
Tool was easy, but his search history was disturbing. He told me about his “preferences”… I made a few “security backups” do document it and gave the information to my supervisor. Confession in confidence? Not for those guys.
[edit: spelling]
My ex wife confessed she killed her pet hamster bc it wouldn’t stop squeaking
That he fell out of his boat, and it took off without him, his phone was in the boat, he had nothing and he waded overnight in the alligator infested lake, floating on his back hearing the gators chirp, and I thought… that’s the story he tells people, I wonder what really happened that he came home wet, naked and wired from not sleeping all night.
I’m telling the story exactly as it happened. I’m not exaggerating. A woman I once had occasional flings with was extremely sexually open-minded. When I asked whether her sister was similarly kinked, she told me they’d had threesomes together with her sister’s husband, all three were swingers. That aroused me, but what followed went disturbing fast. She said she had allowed a German Shepherd to have sex with her from behind. At first I assumed she was joking or deliberately tryin to shock me, but her manner convinced me she was telling the truth. I consider myself open-minded, but that revelation changed how I felt about her and I stopped spending time with her. The threesome with her sister was something I found wildly attractive, but the story about the dog was repulsive.
Guy I was dating for a few months. Confessed he was attracted to pre-pubescent girls, had accessed and used child pornography, and was not opposed to having a “relationship” with someone underage. It was a very traumatic and confusing time for me. I ended things and notified the police.